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Author:  rooster84 [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 3:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Craigs List
hey guys this is my first post cos i had a question about craigs list. i would recommend you all give it a look, its really pretty simple. unlike myspace or facebook, these are personal ads so its a bit more direct. only about 1 in 10 are hot though.

so i went on there last night and sent this opener to some girls:

"Is that your real hair or a wig?"
or
"Is that your real hair color? "

plus

"There are many pretty faces out there, what is your best personality trait?"

I combined two of the more common online approaches on here, a neg and a qualification.

well a few hours later this HB7 replied with a somewhat detailed response. however she did not respond directly to the two question i asked. here it is in entirety:
Quote:
Hi, I got your message sent to my craigslist ad. So what was it about my ad that really caught your attention? I guess you like the picture I posted. looks aren't everything but there has to be some sort of attraction there you know? So what do you like to do in your spare time, you have any hobbies? I keep a little page with more information about me as well as some pictures, alot better than the one I posted on cl. Its one of the few websites thats not blocked at work, unlike my gmail. Before I forget the link is singlesnet dot com. Just search for my user ID, I am ***
I know this is the first time we have met so this will let you get to know me a bit better, and see more of me to. If they ask you to signup its free anyway and you can message me on there and I can talk to you while I'm at work. Well I will be waiting to hear from you.
so obviously there is some interest there. i'm wondering if she interpreted my "is that your real hair color?" not as a neg, but something like "wow i really like your hair is that your real color?"

should i try to reframe here? something like "well you didnt answer either of my questions"... or is that even necessary since she's clearly interested?

however also i need to add i signed up for the stupid free trial on the singlesnet and search for her user ID and its not there! WTF i'm assuming she wanted to show more pics of herself plus maybe there's more info about her personality, etc.

any advice?

how to respond?
Author:  smartass [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 3:22 pm ]
Post subject: 
hah... How to respond? Don't.

You're talking to a bot that's spamming singlesnet. First clue: she didn't answer any of your questions. Second clue: she wants to take you to some site that isn't "normal", i.e. myspace, facebook, or chat like AIM, yahoo, etc.

Hope you didn't use a good email, you might get a lot of spam now.
Author:  rooster84 [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 4:08 pm ]
Post subject: 
dammit i think you are right!

thanks smartass
Author:  smartass [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 4:20 pm ]
Post subject: 
:wink: y/w

for what it's worth, I've found that craigslist has a low signal to noise ratio. 75% is spam and bots. 20% is ugly chicks who don't post pictures. 5% is hot and real, but the chances of them replying is almost nil.

btw, start checking all the ads, not just the ones you're interested in. You'll start to see the same mannerisms, and even the same pictures for different people (well, bots). I've even seen ads that are like,

"I like INTEREST1 and INTEREST2. I'm looking for someone sensitive and cool, but not a mama's boy. I like listening to MUSIC1 and MUSIC2. If you want to hear more, you know what to do!"

lol!!
Author:  rooster84 [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 5:02 pm ]
Post subject: 
you're totally right, now i feel like a complete idiot. looking at it now, i think the ads with one picture are often fake. if the person posts two, with a non generic ad, MAYBE she is real.
Author:  jurupa [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 2:03 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
you're totally right, now i feel like a complete idiot. looking at it now, i think the ads with one picture are often fake. if the person posts two, with a non generic ad, MAYBE she is real.
In my opinion Craigs List is good for everything but the personals.
Author:  rooster84 [ Fri Oct 10, 2008 3:36 pm ]
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ok finally a real one! i sent maybe 8-10 emails to different girls on craigs list and probably half responded as bots directing me to some bullshit website. lame.

but 1 real one finally responded. here are some clues as to why i think she's real. 1) her page had multiple pictures. not always a sure sign, cos some of the bots that responded had multiple pics, but for the most part it seems the bots are ads with short descriptions and 1 photo. and the responded quickly, within a few hours. 2) longer description, somewhat non-generic.

here's her post, my email, and her reply.
Quote:
Hey im Heather,
Im 19 years old and very cutie. I love to go out to eat or maybe just get some coffee. I love movies. going out to clubs, shoping. I need a man to show me a good time and spoile me alittle. If you'd like to take me out tonight you must be between 19-30 send pic... Also singles only thanks.. Oh yeah and im 420 friendly :)
Quote:
heather, my name is rooster.

is that your real hair color?

you do seem "very cutie," but tell me something. there are many
pretty faces out there. what is best about your personality?

here's a pic, its from prague when i was there last year. i'm 24 and
graduated a year ago. i'm in the middle.

haha by the way, i like your "420" friendliness.
Quote:
well hello Rooster loved the pic you sent me very cool!! Im a guys girls yet still very fem.. im not just another pretty face im very down to eath. Im not your avarge woman... I do like to have fun and kick back music, art, movies are some of my main intrestes... Im very loyal friendly my big heart usally gets me into truble lol but im best friend material for sure and if something more happends thats cool. Im very laid back no need to rush.

here' the third clue that she's real, and this is the best part. i was browsing the "women seeking women" section just to check out the lesbos, most are totally butch... they even say in their adds "looking for butch"... wtf? Anyways i find the same chick with the same 4 photos and a similar description...
Quote:
Hi Im Heather,
Im 19 and a total Lip Stick Lez lol I love to be showerd in affection. I love wemon period lol I like to go too partys, clubs, movies, shoping, dinner, Art shows, concerts. No men or couples thanks. I love boyish girls but fems are hot too. I really know how to take care of my ladies. If you like what you see send me a message with pic please. Im curvey in all the wright places 420 friendly. Im a blond blondbombsell lol

so what to do now? she responded to my qualification but ignored the neg, oh well. one thing i did is when i sent a pic of myself, it was a 3 set with me, a guy, and a cute girl... so there's some social proof. maybe a better idea than just sending one pic of yourself.

so i wanna go out with her tonight or tomorrow (saturday). i was thinking of inviting her to get coffee at starbucks, and saying "if you play nice, i wanna go to the museum." dinner is lame and drinking isn't an option since she's 19. but i wanna do this in a non-AFC way. i'm a bit stumped because she didn't leave any direct response open... she's making me take the lead.

i was thinking of turning this around on her: her original ad said "looking for some arm candy" so how about "ok arm candy, let's meet at starbucks and if you play nice, go to the museum". but i need something in between... i have her email now but thats it. i guess what i need is her digits to text.

help me out! thanks in advance.
Author:  smartass [ Sun Oct 12, 2008 7:31 am ]
Post subject: 
Sorry about the delay man,

I'd try something like this:

"Whoa whoa whoa... who said anything about friends? You need to slow down there. My last cyberstalker turned out to be a 62 year old guy. How am I supposed to know you're who you say you are?"
Author:  OsirisGrave [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 2:45 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
"Whoa whoa whoa... who said anything about friends? You need to slow down there. My last cyberstalker turned out to be a 62 year old guy. How am I supposed to know you're who you say you are?"
LAWLZ! love it!! XD
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