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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Sat Jul 26, 2008 9:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hows the AIM chatting going? |
so yeah background: this girl has flaked on me twice already, and i decided lets not make the same mistake 3 times. I found out from her friends later that she was indeed having family problems as she had stated. So i felt a little bad in that i thought she was lying to me. So heres whats up after like 1 month she starts talkin to me randomly again. (after i dated her best friend) She stirs up conversation and offers to talk me through my hard times (my grandfather died as well) we both enjoyed the convo and she said that we should talk more. Here is the result of the next conversation. Me: (11:55:49 PM): hey Her: (11:56:20 PM): hey dan whats up Me: (11:56:45 PM): just got home from grandamas house Her: (11:56:59 PM): how was that Me: (11:57:00 PM): had to get her and my aunt over here for the night Me: (11:57:10 PM): cuse we dont have a caretaker for her at the momment Me: (11:57:23 PM): so i had to get her out of bed and bring her hom Me: (11:57:25 PM): *home Her: (11:57:29 PM): is she sick? Me: (11:57:31 PM): no Me: (11:57:40 PM): she just doesnt have anyone to watch her Me: (11:57:50 PM): and its unfair to be staying by urself at such an old age Her: (11:58:03 PM): i agree my grandmas in the situation too Me: (11:58:04 PM): when uv had someone u love around you for 67 years Me: (11:58:24 PM): yeah gotta have a duty to the family Me: (11:58:27 PM): first and foremost Me: (11:58:35 PM): but hey thats serious and depressing stuff Me: (11:58:48 PM): how about something positive? Me: (11:59:15 PM): restart this conversation cuse i didnt like how i started it in negative light.. Me: (11:59:19 PM): how was your day? Her: (11:59:22 PM): well i did everything for sdsu like housing Me: (11:59:27 PM): good good Me: (11:59:31 PM): you went down there yes? Her: (11:59:43 PM): yes on monday Me: (11:59:48 PM): and tell me about it? Me: (12:00:47 AM): perhaps another time.. Her: (12:00:53 AM): i liked it. wayy better than what i expected but its weird liek the girls were there for orientation when i went to visit and im so friendly adn everything i smiled and a lot of the girls seems kind of stuck up blonde and just i cant explain it but it was only some Me: (12:01:28 AM): well u know what they say about stuck up people Me: (12:01:33 AM): they are just hiding something Me: (12:01:42 AM): most are sweet people underneath Me: (12:01:59 AM): i know my best friend right now was a jerk to me in 6th grade Her: (12:02:01 AM): thats true and i dont knwo them so i cant just judge but im pretty sure ill have a godo time and make plenty of friends Me: (12:02:12 AM): see there ya go Me: (12:02:16 AM): i like to hear that Her: (12:02:22 AM): haha yea Her: (12:02:24 AM): where ar eu going again Me: (12:02:32 AM): ur definatly entering with the right attitude Me: (12:02:37 AM): im at long beach Me: (12:02:54 AM): got a condo too which is sweet with 2 other guys Her: (12:02:59 AM): with zay Her: (12:03:01 AM): d Me: (12:03:03 AM): haha yeah Her: (12:03:04 AM): that should be soo fun Me: (12:03:20 AM): yeah i didnt wanna stay in a dorm there Me: (12:03:30 AM): wanted to have my own place my own kitchen and my own room Her: (12:03:55 AM): thats smart Me: (12:03:59 AM): im the only child Her: (12:04:01 AM): ill visit you there Me: (12:04:06 AM): haha for sure Me: (12:04:12 AM): its pretty good size Me: (12:04:19 AM): first thing im gonna do is get a queensize bed Me: (12:04:30 AM): and a kick ass mattress with lots of pillows Her: (12:04:41 AM): haha just for u Me: (12:04:50 AM): maybe Her: (12:04:55 AM): hahaha Me: (12:05:06 AM): im lookin forward to it Me: (12:05:12 AM): but at the same time Me: (12:05:15 AM): i dont want summer to end Me: (12:05:34 AM): today i was kinda bombarded with memories Me: (12:05:45 AM): since it has been 2 months since graduation Her: (12:05:46 AM): memories from high school? Me: (12:05:51 AM): yeah i was just thinkin ya know? Me: (12:06:04 AM): i mean im not gonna be walkin down those blue carpeted halls this fall Me: (12:06:10 AM): smelling the rug clearner Her: (12:06:22 AM): yea i know what u mean i just thought about it too like im goign to miss sacred heart a lot Me: (12:06:24 AM): sayin high to carlos the janitor or helping the new freshmen Me: (12:06:41 AM): i guess that after 4 years Me: (12:06:55 AM): u develop a bond with some people that is almost closer than family Me: (12:07:01 AM): like brotherhood or sisterhood in a way Her: (12:07:04 AM): i totally knwo what u mean Me: (12:07:06 AM): you know what i mean? Her: (12:07:13 AM): like my friends are the family i choose Me: (12:07:15 AM): i mean realistically u spend more hours with them than u do at home Me: (12:07:22 AM): yeah exactly Me: (12:07:25 AM): family that you can chose Me: (12:07:29 AM): *choose Me: (12:07:59 AM): i was tempted to break open the year book Her: (12:08:03 AM): yup like honestly ive been through my fair share of friends and i really know the ones who have my back and are like my family Me: (12:08:22 AM): exactly Her: (12:08:31 AM): so whats new> Me: (12:08:36 AM): well let me get your opinion on something Her: (12:08:42 AM): ok Me: (12:08:53 AM): having a female opinion always helps shed light on situations that us males seem to constantly overlook Me: (12:09:09 AM): so my best friend Evan Me: (12:09:20 AM): ive known him since... before freshmen year Me: (12:09:22 AM): in summer school Me: (12:09:36 AM): he lately starting becoming flaky Me: (12:09:40 AM): like hardcore Me: (12:09:47 AM): i mean he woldnt show to things he said hed be at Me: (12:09:56 AM): he would let us all down at the last minute Her: (12:09:56 AM): did he giv eu a reason Me: (12:10:02 AM): always some bs reason Me: (12:10:09 AM): or hed tell me something Me: (12:10:15 AM): and then tell my friend ashley something else Me: (12:10:28 AM): so we figured Me: (12:10:32 AM): what ever hes into a girl probably Me: (12:10:37 AM): let him have his space Me: (12:10:47 AM): but lately hes been trying to exclude me from things etc.. Me: (12:11:03 AM): so i kinda go pissed and told people that if he doesnt start shaping up Me: (12:11:10 AM): we just gonna have to move on and stop relying on him Me: (12:11:34 AM): he heard Me: (12:11:40 AM): and said i was talkin shit about him bla bla bal Me: (12:11:54 AM): i told him if he didnt know why i was mad at him then he was just plain stuipd... Me: (12:12:05 AM): i didnt use that word but same idea Me: (12:12:13 AM): so i havnt spoken to him in 3 weeks Me: (12:12:21 AM): funny thing is Me: (12:12:33 AM): all this is probably over a girl too Me: (12:12:40 AM): that i helped set him up with Me: (12:12:54 AM): and i dunno whether it should be me to apologize to him or vis versa Me: (12:12:57 AM): what do u think? Her: (12:12:59 AM): wow that sucks. do you still want his friendship? Me: (12:13:07 AM): thats the million dollar question Me: (12:13:15 AM): dont get me wrong i love people Me: (12:13:23 AM): but i dont have a problem moving on Her: (12:13:24 AM): its really funny because i was in a similar situation Me: (12:13:29 AM): and tell me what did you do? Her: (12:14:41 AM): girls are different from guys lol but i really think teh best thing for u to do it straight up call him or meet with him adn be like whats up obviously thigns have been weird but jsut so u know iw asnt talking shit its jsut things are different adn we all still want to kick it with you but not if your goign to keep flaking and i understand u have other thigns going on but be straight up about it and be like im nto saying this to cause drama or problems i jsut wanted to be straight up Her: (12:14:51 AM): if he takes it the wrong way then his loss but at least u were being a man about it Me: (12:15:27 AM): lol Me: (12:15:34 AM): ive never heard a girl talk that way before Me: (12:15:41 AM): straight up Her: (12:16:10 AM): is it a bad thing? Me: (12:16:18 AM): well its not a common thing Her: (12:16:28 AM): im tryign to make it seem as if a guy woudl say it Me: (12:16:38 AM): doing a good job there lol Me: (12:16:56 AM): nah i just messin with yeah Me: (12:16:59 AM): *ya Her: (12:17:06 AM): haha well did i do a good job Me: (12:17:24 AM): if i were in person with you right now id hug you Her: (12:18:00 AM): haha why Me: (12:18:16 AM): i act on impulse alot Me: (12:18:20 AM): and thats just what id do Her: (12:18:29 AM): haha kk Me: (12:18:41 AM): so that answers ur question a little bit Me: (12:18:54 AM): probably not in the normal way of course Her: (12:19:32 AM): haha no worries Me: (12:19:39 AM): i know Me: (12:19:40 AM): =) Her: (12:19:41 AM): but yea u really should be honest and nice about it Her: (12:19:48 AM): but then again everyone tells me im wayyy to nice so idk Me: (12:19:59 AM): oh yeah? Me: (12:20:04 AM): your a jerk Her: (12:20:15 AM): haha no im not Me: (12:20:25 AM): prove it Her: (12:20:56 AM): i apologized for u getting the wrong impression Her: (12:21:01 AM): im not goign to li eu were kind of mean abou tit Me: (12:21:07 AM): =) Me: (12:21:13 AM): good enough for me Me: (12:21:30 AM): dont trip Me: (12:21:37 AM): i was just puttin you on the spot a little bit Me: (12:22:08 AM): but as you said often straight up as u just demonstrated Me: (12:22:10 AM): is the best way Me: (12:22:31 AM): forget about that Me: (12:22:46 AM): thats all kinda depressing stuff Me: (12:22:47 AM): again.. Me: (12:23:08 AM): what are you plans for the rest of summmer? Me: (12:23:23 AM): anything special in mind? Her: (12:24:06 AM): haha ok dan..mmm im not sure usually family trips and stuff are always last minute and spontanious like the sd trip. but i think we shoudl get a bunch of ppl adbn go to santa barbara or soemthing Me: (12:24:23 AM): did i offend you at all in my last statement? Me: (12:24:26 AM): and be honest Her: (12:24:39 AM): what statement? Me: (12:24:47 AM): nah just me puttin ya on the spot Her: (12:25:06 AM): i dont get how that was putting me on the spot lol like u honestly thought i was a flake and stuff and im not Me: (12:25:26 AM): well i got the wrong impression Me: (12:25:30 AM): and i read you wrong Me: (12:25:44 AM): so i think it is my turn to apologize to you Me: (12:26:05 AM): so i sincerely apologize for making an inaccurate assumption about you Me: (12:26:34 AM): because if my original thought of you were true we wouldnt be having this conversation right now Me: (12:26:55 AM): and i probably wouldnt have asked u to hang out again Her: (12:27:20 AM): haha jsut like when u talked about my split ends lol Me: (12:27:59 AM): mm yeah something like that Me: (12:28:00 AM): =) Me: (12:28:20 AM): did i ever mention that ur nose jiggles a little bit when u laugh? Me: (12:28:26 AM): ops shouldnt have said that Me: (12:28:27 AM): Her: (12:28:48 AM): hwo would u know Her: (12:29:01 AM): i dont think so lol Me: (12:29:57 AM): mm Me: (12:30:09 AM): did it really take u that long to think of a comeback Her: (12:30:22 AM): are u being serious though Me: (12:30:32 AM): look into my eyes Me: (12:30:36 AM): O.O Her: (12:30:45 AM): i cant tell lol Me: (12:30:46 AM): haha Me: (12:31:02 AM): well then well have to "remeet" each other in person now wont we? Her: (12:31:14 AM): haha i guess bu tim going to be embarassed to laugh Her: (12:31:19 AM): is that jsut a line u use lol Me: (12:31:28 AM): a line? Her: (12:31:35 AM): liek to get girls Me: (12:31:38 AM): um no Me: (12:31:46 AM): what you think im trying to seduce you? Her: (12:32:13 AM): not at all Me: (12:32:24 AM): of course not Me: (12:32:27 AM): Me: (12:32:54 AM): so you said your summer plans were to go to SB? Me: (12:33:56 AM): mm ur probably watching urself laugh in the mirror right now.. Me: (12:34:01 AM): ima go get a cookie Her: (12:34:19 AM): haha ok Me: (12:40:10 AM): k back Me: (12:41:13 AM): i was kidnaped by my aunt on the way back from the kitchen to inflate her mattress Her: (12:42:13 AM): goo dboy Me: (12:42:32 AM): lol? Me: (12:42:36 AM): im a doggy now? Me: (12:42:38 AM): wuff! Her: (12:42:45 AM): haha no Me: (12:43:01 AM): lol Me: (12:43:09 AM): so what were we talking about? Me: (12:43:21 AM): i got major distracted by my aunt Me: (12:43:27 AM): shes crazy Her: (12:44:37 AM): haha i forgot Me: (12:44:44 AM): short attention span too? Me: (12:44:45 AM): nice! Me: (12:44:49 AM): air high 5 Me: (12:45:05 AM): thats why it records messages Me: (12:45:33 AM): ah ok Me: (12:45:54 AM): so wait what is going to be/ has been the highlight of summer so far? Me: (12:46:10 AM): was it mexico? Me: (12:46:18 AM): or still something ahead that might put that in second place? Her: (12:46:33 AM): mmm probably mexico because it was relaxing or finally making a college decision or the parties and stuff where i got to see all my friends Me: (12:46:50 AM): popular girl Me: (12:47:14 AM): so when u go to parties Me: (12:47:20 AM): and u first see someone Me: (12:47:25 AM): what is the first thing you notice about them? Me: (12:47:37 AM): it could be anything Her: (12:48:25 AM): do u mean like a random person iv never met Me: (12:48:28 AM): yeah Me: (12:48:31 AM): just someone Me: (12:48:41 AM): maybe its diff for guys and girls im not sure Me: (12:48:45 AM): whats ur feedback? Her: (12:48:47 AM): mm probably how the interact with me like if they give me a hug and stuff Me: (12:49:03 AM): and what does that hug convey to you? Me: (12:50:10 AM): i mean does it make you feel more comfortable around them the next time you see them? Me: (12:50:19 AM): or does it portray confidence Her: (12:50:20 AM): i dont get waht ur asking lol Me: (12:50:36 AM): forget it Me: (12:50:42 AM): for another time Me: (12:51:20 AM): no need to be askin big questions here on aim Me: (12:51:33 AM): aim is for small talk Me: (12:51:37 AM): phone is for fluff talk Me: (12:51:51 AM): and in person is for...semi real talk Her: (12:52:38 AM): i agree Me: (12:52:55 AM): mhmm Me: (12:53:12 AM): so tell me something Her: (12:53:23 AM): pick a topic and i will Me: (12:53:23 AM): have you looked into the mirror in the past 15 minutes? Her: (12:53:30 AM): hahaahaha no Her: (12:53:35 AM): ive sat int eh same spot ont eh computer Me: (12:53:38 AM): ok good Me: (12:53:43 AM): really? Her: (12:53:59 AM): haha yup how would u knwo my nose juggles Her: (12:54:02 AM): *jiggles Me: (12:54:10 AM): oh just things i pick up Me: (12:54:47 AM): its good to hear that you put thought into what your going to say though Me: (12:55:28 AM): like now for example.. Her: (12:55:40 AM): what do u mean lol Me: (12:55:49 AM): just the time u take between sentences Me: (12:55:58 AM): ur not as sporadic as some people Her: (12:56:29 AM): haha because im watching videos i recorded this year Me: (12:56:31 AM): ur spontaneous but you like to think things through before you say them Her: (12:56:32 AM): bu tit ake time too lol Me: (12:56:50 AM): videos from school? Me: (12:57:00 AM): you like an amatuer speilberg or something? Me: (12:57:45 AM): meh dont trip Me: (12:57:51 AM): watch da vids Me: (12:57:57 AM): well talk later Her: (12:58:42 AM): o Her: (12:58:43 AM): no Her: (12:58:48 AM): i wanna talk too i can multitask lol Me: (12:58:48 AM): ? Me: (12:59:04 AM): lol Me: (12:59:17 AM): ok Me: (12:59:21 AM): ask me something outrageous Me: (12:59:22 AM): anything Her: (12:59:30 AM): are you a virgin Me: (12:59:37 AM): i didnt say i would answer though Me: (12:59:38 AM): =) Her: (12:59:44 AM): hahahahaha Her: (12:59:47 AM): good one you got me there Me: (1:00:16 AM): so quick to come up with a question Me: (1:00:20 AM): impressive Me: (1:00:46 AM): takes most people a long time to think up a good one Her: (1:00:51 AM): haha idk thats teh most outrageous thing i can think iof Me: (1:00:56 AM): really?? Me: (1:01:05 AM): common i know ur head isnt that clean Her: (1:02:01 AM): im clean Me: (1:02:05 AM): something i found over the years is that is equally embarassing for the person asking the question as it is for the person being asked Me: (1:02:12 AM): often more Me: (1:02:14 AM): Me: (1:02:17 AM): ur clean? Me: (1:02:29 AM): have you showerd today? Her: (1:03:26 AM): yup Her: (1:03:30 AM): mentally clean too lol Me: (1:03:44 AM): mm Me: (1:03:46 AM): im sure of that Me: (1:04:00 AM): did you know that 90% of women masturbate in the shower? Me: (1:04:13 AM): and the other 10% hum a certain tune Me: (1:04:23 AM): you know what that tune is? Her: (1:05:00 AM): no Me: (1:05:12 AM): hmm Me: (1:05:16 AM): then you must be part of that 90% Her: (1:05:24 AM): ive heard that before Me: (1:05:28 AM): of course you have Me: (1:05:31 AM): its a joke Her: (1:05:35 AM): and each time i soemhoe forget the answer lol Me: (1:05:39 AM): haha Me: (1:05:44 AM): yet you answer no every time? Me: (1:06:06 AM): sammy and charlie P have the best ones Me: (1:06:11 AM): haha Her: (1:06:45 AM): omg i know i went to school with them Her: (1:06:48 AM): sammys hilarious Me: (1:06:59 AM): his laugh is enough to get anyone laughing.. Her: (1:07:08 AM): hahaha seriously Me: (1:07:11 AM): just hearing him laugh makes me laugh Me: (1:07:12 AM): lol Me: (1:07:53 AM): so alright you ask me something Me: (1:08:02 AM): seems ive been the one askin you all night Her: (1:08:09 AM): mmmm whats ur favorite memory Me: (1:08:10 AM): whats on your mind? Me: (1:08:14 AM): mm Me: (1:08:17 AM): from school? Me: (1:08:21 AM): or what? Me: (1:08:37 AM): or anything? Her: (1:08:44 AM): anything Me: (1:08:47 AM): April 25th, 2008 Her: (1:08:57 AM): what happened Me: (1:09:10 AM): La Salle prom at the aquarium Her: (1:09:29 AM): what made it so great Me: (1:09:33 AM): everything Me: (1:09:38 AM): the setting was perfect Me: (1:09:41 AM): the music was perfect Me: (1:09:47 AM): the people were perfect Me: (1:10:03 AM): its one of those momments when you can look into the eyes of your friends Me: (1:10:09 AM): and see how much fun they are really having Me: (1:10:20 AM): you want to say something but you dont have to Me: (1:10:23 AM): its implied Me: (1:10:33 AM): you are both grateful that the other is there Me: (1:10:41 AM): right next to em side by side Me: (1:11:12 AM): seeing everyone else having so much fun only enhances my expererience Me: (1:11:27 AM): so im an extravert Her: (1:11:28 AM): thats so deep Me: (1:11:32 AM): hey you asked Me: (1:11:33 AM): lol Her: (1:11:36 AM): u shoudl write a book or soemthing Me: (1:11:44 AM): nah i just know what i like Her: (1:12:20 AM): but still ur good with words Me: (1:12:33 AM): heh Me: (1:12:38 AM): ive done alright Me: (1:12:59 AM): i guess 4 years of english class eventually does something doesnt it? Me: (1:13:06 AM): it better... Me: (1:13:14 AM): or ima have to have a word with mr. williams.. Me: (1:13:19 AM): =) Her: (1:13:29 AM): haha yea Her: (1:13:31 AM): but still Me: (1:13:41 AM): but still...? Her: (1:14:52 AM): like i dont think its jsut english class i think that your jsut a sensitive adn deep person you know Me: (1:15:17 AM): is that a compliment or an indicator of interest? Her: (1:16:42 AM): make of it waht u will lol Her: (1:16:47 AM): its just facts Me: (1:17:05 AM): not bad with words urself either Me: (1:17:14 AM): evaded the question entirely Me: (1:17:22 AM): but thank you Me: (1:17:23 AM): =) Her: (1:17:53 AM): haha np Me: (1:18:48 AM): so im gettin a bit tired Me: (1:18:52 AM): think i might call it a night Her: (1:19:00 AM): ok it was nice talking to you Me: (1:19:09 AM): so when am i gonna see ya next? Her: (1:19:26 AM): mmm maybe tomorrow are u goign to ian’s things Me: (1:19:44 AM): mm no i cant tom i have prior engagments with friends Her: (1:19:52 AM): good ur noit a flake lol Her: (1:19:56 AM): ok well plan soemthign then Me: (1:20:05 AM): i work this weekend Me: (1:20:18 AM): but i should be off all next week Me: (1:20:24 AM): if u dont mind me asking Me: (1:20:31 AM): how adventurous are you? Me: (1:20:35 AM): on a scale of 1-10 Her: (1:20:51 AM): mmm depends like if its illegal ill be scared to do it Me: (1:21:00 AM): i dont break the law Her: (1:21:02 AM): but id say around a 7 or 8 depending Me: (1:21:03 AM): i only break the rules Me: (1:21:09 AM): alright good Me: (1:21:28 AM): anything above 6 is exactly what i was looking for Me: (1:21:40 AM): so ur phone number? Her: (1:21:40 AM): hahaha good Her: (1:21:46 AM): dont u ahve it Me: (1:22:00 AM): hmmm numbers have an uncanny way of being removed from my list Her: (1:22:14 AM): did you honestly delete it? Me: (1:22:18 AM): i dont know Me: (1:22:29 AM): id have to check Me: (1:22:32 AM): but im too lazy right now Her: (1:22:37 AM): o wow lol ok then its ************ Me: (1:22:54 AM): i usually like to keep my contacts list small Me: (1:23:01 AM): but my doors and bridges open Me: (1:23:06 AM): if that makes any sense to ya Her: (1:23:10 AM): once again good with words Me: (1:23:18 AM): =) Me: (1:23:25 AM): ill call you later Her: (1:23:32 AM): kk night Me: (1:23:39 AM): good night |
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| Author: | johnnyboy23232 [ Mon Jul 28, 2008 7:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | aim game |
This is really good aim game from what I have read so far. I will critique it tomorrow when i have more time. |
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| Author: | bboy_spy [ Mon Jul 28, 2008 7:59 am ] |
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thanks so much man... im when u read the rest u will be up to date. She has contacted me again and i wanna call her and set up a date. I was thinking of something like this: *phone rings Her: hello? Me: so i had this crazy idea... that involves me picking you up at ur house at *undecided time* on *undecided date* at an undisclosed location for an incredible night out. Think you can handle that? |
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| Author: | slyder2412 [ Mon Jul 28, 2008 8:18 am ] |
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hey i didnt read the entire thing....but a big indicator from just scrolling down was from your Me to HER ratio. You seemed to do a lot more of the talking than she did, (invested more of yourself then she did). You gotta find a subject which she's passionate about so she can really open up. Trust me i still find it difficult...but when u hit something good u'll know by her response time/thoughts/how more open she seems. |
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| Author: | johnnyboy23232 [ Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | aim game |
that was unbelievable that you ran so many routines on her on aim and for the most part they worked. She almost caught you twice which was pretty funny. my aim and phone game is pretty brutal so I'm definitely going to use some of your material. The only thing I noticed is that you didn't let her talk alot and sometimes you got impatient when she didn't respond right away. I don't really know if this is a bad thing because I'm a pua noob and you handled it pretty well with some negs but it seemed a little bit excessive. props to you though, alot of this stuff is golden. if you can send me some more of your aim conversations or post them - I'd love to have a look sbfx |
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