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Author:  Homer Simpson [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 3:06 am ]
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What do you think of having pics with girls on your profile? I was thinking just one.then the rest cool activities.. Any advice would be welcome .
Thank you.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jun 20, 2017 8:07 pm ]
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One won't hurt, but girls aren't oblivious to the reason why you're doing it however. As long as you are aware that women are not dumb, and will know exactly why you're putting the photo with the girl up there you can do whatever you want.
Author:  Learn_Easy_Dating [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
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What do you think of having pics with girls on your profile? I was thinking just one.then the rest cool activities.. Any advice would be welcome .
Thank you.
This is really not advised. Women look at this and see, "He is a player." Whether this is true or not this is what you are portraying and it will hurt your matches and replies. Women don't want a player even if they are truly only looking for a one-night stand. It is also sending a message of insecurity. It is saying "Look at me, see, these women like me and you should too."

I am gonna attach some of my profile pictures. Your profile is YOUR profile and should only be about you. It is meant to show who you are and the pictures should only be of you. No group shots.

Check out the pictures I am attaching as these are pretty ideal. I literally just took an afternoon with a friend and had her take some pictures of me walking around and looking around. It may look like im posing but I was really just standing there. She took probably about 100 photos and I chose a few from that. I would really recommend you do that same!

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Author:  Learn_Easy_Dating [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:36 pm ]
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Here is one more photo for you to consider.

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Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 9:30 pm ]
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Women don't want a player even if they are truly only looking for a one-night stand.
This is not true. Women love to think that they can get the "player" to want to settle down with her. In fact, a player can get a woman to want him because she knows that other women want him. The problem comes when the "player" overgames a woman where she believes that she doesn't have a chance or he makes her feel like she's just a notch and that's when being a player is looked at negatively by a specific woman.
Author:  Learn_Easy_Dating [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
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Women don't want a player even if they are truly only looking for a one-night stand.
This is not true. Women love to think that they can get the "player" to want to settle down with her. In fact, a player can get a woman to want him because she knows that other women want him. The problem comes when the "player" over games a woman where she believes that she doesn't have a chance or he makes her feel like she's just a notch and that's when being a player is looked at negatively by a specific woman.
Well spoken! I just have never met a person who could pull this look off including some of the "Professionals." Most people just come off as sleazy. It is so much easier to get women when you don't act like a player anyways. When you just come off as a super confident, and well-rounded guy, it is implied that you have many options and you become better as a person as well.

Having a background in psychology I wrote several college papers on the topic of attraction. Also, Tinder has a few published studies on the subject. It is proven that you get about 15%-20% fewer matches when you have a photo with another girl in your picture.
Author:  Learn_Easy_Dating [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
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Women don't want a player even if they are truly only looking for a one-night stand.
This is not true. Women love to think that they can get the "player" to want to settle down with her. In fact, a player can get a woman to want him because she knows that other women want him. The problem comes when the "player" overgames a woman where she believes that she doesn't have a chance or he makes her feel like she's just a notch and that's when being a player is looked at negatively by a specific woman.
I can't find a link to the exact study, I am quite busy at the moment, but I found an article VERY lightly touching on what I have just mentioned. Look at photo number three and it lightly touches on photos with women. Keep in mind that most of the "professionals" that give advice on making a girl like you have no formal education on the way people think nor do they have any motives other than selling you stuff. I do this simply because I dealt with issues for a long time and I want to help people. I don't currently have anything for sale other than free information.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_adv ... e-pic.html
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 10:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
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Women don't want a player even if they are truly only looking for a one-night stand.
This is not true. Women love to think that they can get the "player" to want to settle down with her. In fact, a player can get a woman to want him because she knows that other women want him. The problem comes when the "player" over games a woman where she believes that she doesn't have a chance or he makes her feel like she's just a notch and that's when being a player is looked at negatively by a specific woman.
Well spoken! I just have never met a person who could pull this look off including some of the "Professionals." Most people just come off as sleazy. It is so much easier to get women when you don't act like a player anyways. When you just come off as a super confident, and well-rounded guy, it is implied that you have many options and you become better as a person as well.

Having a background in psychology I wrote several college papers on the topic of attraction. Also, Tinder has a few published studies on the subject. It is proven that you get about 15%-20% fewer matches when you have a photo with another girl in your picture.
Yeah...I see what you're saying here. You're talking about the guys trying to advertise themselves as players. That would turn women away.
Author:  Learn_Easy_Dating [ Tue Jun 27, 2017 10:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
Exactly, comes off as very "Hey look at me!!!!"
Author:  Homer Simpson [ Thu Jun 29, 2017 12:49 am ]
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Great advice. Thanks guys.
Author:  oceanx [ Thu Jun 29, 2017 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
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Women don't want a player even if they are truly only looking for a one-night stand.
This is not true. Women love to think that they can get the "player" to want to settle down with her. In fact, a player can get a woman to want him because she knows that other women want him. The problem comes when the "player" overgames a woman where she believes that she doesn't have a chance or he makes her feel like she's just a notch and that's when being a player is looked at negatively by a specific woman.
You're both right. The cat who isn't wearing chains and saying "baby" .... the grounded socially aware man .... may be labeled as a "player" but by not advertising himself as such and not discussing his sex life with women ..... is bound to receive the interest of multiple women because of implied social proof.

Going on in her subconscious is something along the lines of, "How in the hell is he having this smooth af interaction with me if he isn't comfy enough to do this with other women and hasn't been received favorably by other women in the past...it would be seen as weird then, if I too, didn't react favorably."

Pics with girls? I don't know man, test it out for yourself and compare response rates. It's the ONLY way you're going to find out if it works for you or not.
Author:  tbird990 [ Sun Jul 09, 2017 1:04 am ]
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Thanks, Good links on tips..
Author:  GKS [ Wed Jul 19, 2017 9:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pics with girls
I used pic with hot girls but usually crop them off by half the face. I meant I'm not a fan of selfies or sort so usually all my pics have someone in there with me. I tested it out with original pics first but didnt get a lot of results bc every pic I was with different girls. That might come off as bragging to other women. So I decided to crop them off. Well not entirely off. I usually leave half the face or just enough for them to realize that the chick is hot. That improved my result significantly.
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