Haven't been here in a long time, actually just logged on to ask a question.
I haven't used apps for dating until just the last couple weeks, but I've already been on a few dates where I feel the match misrepresented herself or I got a vibe that just wasn't going to work out. These have been pleasant dates more or less, but definitely the kind I don't have interest in pursuing further. I feel it is harder to judge this vs. having met in person before the first date, because usually by the time I've gotten a number I can tell there is a bit of chemistry.
I found it awkward to end both dates because I could tell the girl was more into a second date than I was... I don't want to make vague mentions of "let's do this again sometime" etc. because I've been on the bad end of that stick and it sucks. I genuinely felt like a girl at the end of a mediocre date.
For you guys who are experienced with this kind of mixed bag, what works best?
/couldn't find relevant info in search but happy to read threads if something comes to mind