I have two strategies for that.
1) Time saver strategy. Go into the meet me, swipe right on the first 20 girls as fast as you can. The one that said yes to you will be one of the 20, and now will show up as a mutual match. Wait for her to message you. If she doesn't, ignore her. Takes 30 seconds, and you can use the extra time you saved meeting girls in real life.
2) Too much free time strategy. Don't swipe right in the Meet Me thing, instead send her a message directly. Tease her about something in her profile or say something like "I would say I want to meet you too but I don't want pof to think I'm a slut
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