So i started talking to a girl on pof earlier, good looking girl and her profile made her out to be big into gaming etc. so i've kept a lot of talk around that as she seems pretty shy.. which i think is my first mistake, as theres not all that much chance to be playful or drop in much innuendo there (although more than you'd think)

anyway we both have an xbox one and like a bellend i said she should add me on the xbox so i could help her through a game she mentioned she "hated because she kept dying". I think that was a mistake though, seems like im throwing myself right into the friend zone.. which is obviously the opposite to what i want.

think i should just live with my choice and when i get her on xbox make it more about chatting than playing the game? or suggest going out at the weekend before i do get friend zoned? or just move on?