Fuxake man, have a bit of respect and decency will ya? I didn't come here to get sarcastic posts dissing me like this. I came here for solutions to Tinder.

If you can't post anything practical to help me about the Tinder app then please don't waste my time and don't post at all. I came here for actual help, not to verbally assaulted like this.

If I were disrespecting you, I'd make it more blunt. I would have made sarcastic comments about you actually having the audacity to contact tinder's support because you weren't getting matches. So quit being sensitive.

Tinder is all about the pictures and if the pictures that used to work aren't working and the new ones don't work, that means your well has run dry and you'll have to wait for a significant amount of women to join in your area. Since you have less options from that app, you should be looking at other sources and maybe even going outside to meet women. If you were getting 5 matches a day, you have the ability to meet one girl a day in real life.

What did you do before Tinder existed?

You got plenty to diversify:
- POF
- OkCupid
- Match
- and some new up and coming ones called 'Happn'


Stop depending on these platforms, they change all the time, be versatile, the best way to be good with online game, is to master cold approach pick up. Or perhaps your pics are getting a little outdated, send me your profile?

Quit with the attitude, because Jack hit the bull's eye

Get to work

Well I could do without that mocking talk about me crying to bouncers what not. That's a bit of a p*** take which I still consider disrespectful. But whatever...

Thanks for chipping in with practical advice in your new post.

Yeah I could do well in real life or other sites, maybe. Fact is though, that the method I'm using at the moment which I want to solve is Tinder. I use it for one reason, because I'm not getting out to meet girls in real life anymore. Social life has dried up.

What do you mean specifically that my well has run dry? Tinder isn't giving me the message that there are no profiles that meet my criteria anymore, like it did some time last year when I had a limited age preference range. So it seems that yeah, girls still are coming to Tinder to use it as new users. I also change my location when I use Tinder, like when I move around London for work.

Thanks. I get what you mean that I may have used up all the girls that were in my area and not enough new ones have joined to like me the same amount as before.

I'll send you my pics, Dragula. I know it's all opinions, but I personally think my new replacing pics are better than my last batch. But heh, we'll see. I also wonder if girls are paying that much attention to me writing in my description about my real age (10 years older than it initially says on my profile), or if they even look at my profile beyond the first pic when swiping.

Thanks for your reply, and I didn't mean to get at Jack. I see where you and Jack and Dragula are getting at - that I need to get out more, use more sites etc. It's Summer now and I can't be so closed minded, I need to be more assertive in real life and push harder and on other sites. OK that's something to start thinking about and put into action.

If I make you all a deal and start to put more heart, soul and belief into doing that, can we stay a bit more on track with this singular problem I am in this thread about, and see how we can solve my Tinder problems? The issue of my life outside it is a whole other problem and story which I will tell people about here later on, as I plan to.

But it would be a real relief and ease a major trouble I'm having with Tinder itself if anyone can advise on what are the technical ways I can dig myself out of this black hole I am in with Tinder. It would benefit a tremendous amount.

Right now I'm not sure what I can do to my profile as it is now to move it to the top of the pile or other ways it can get matched up more. I'm not sure if my profile is being seen and not swiped on, or it is being seen or something about it is putting women off.

Maybe the pool is empty. But I'm not running out of people in my area and age range, they are still there. I just don't know how it all works. When I'm swiping through, am I looking at new profiles or older profiles, or in any order of the 2? Like newer profiles I see first?

And is it the same for women? That they see newer male profiles first then older male profiles after, in that order? Maybe my profile is now considered too old to be seen?

How does this 'top of the pile' work?
Does the top of the pile mean that new profiles are top of the pile? Older profiles at the bottom? Is this what has happened to me? Or, again, have I been pushed to the bottom for something wrong that I did?

Sorry for the long posts, I'm just trying to figure out what has happened here, and maybe I need to figure out how Tinder works for me to know this. Not sure if there is anything I can do about it still after all this.