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Author:  Mr.Alaska [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Where the hell did I go wrong?
Background: I met this girl at a party about 6 months ago, didn't think much of it she was cute had a boyfriend kinda seemed like she was into me. Later she finds me and adds me on IG, after that basically likes every single picture of mine. I decide to try my luck and message her (by now I'm pretty sure she broke up with her bf). Also I'm moving to live on a boat with a bunch of guys for a few months so fuck me if I don't get laid beforehand.

Me: Julieeee lol hey what's up :) I know it's random but I was hoping you could help settle a debate I'm having with a friend
Her: What's up :)
Me: Okay is kissing a stranger once cheating?
Her: Mmmm tbh no
Me: Lol and why is it not?
Her:Idk I Just feel like cheating is deeper than that :)
Her: I have a skewed view of relationships though tbh :)
Me: I get you, something like this is just something that makes for a good night :)
Me: And please elaborate
Her: What do you mean?
Her:Idk I just see things differently :)
Me: Kissing an attractive charming stranger for a night with your friends just makes for a good time, nothing more nothing less
Me: Okay I wont pry lol but they do have their good and bad
Her: That's what I think!!!
Her: And tbh I like open relationships that's why :)
Me: Lol you're awesome I have a whole theory about why those work best
(I realize now I could have teased her and said she was the worst person to help settle the debated based on her bias on regular relationships in general)
Her: So do I haha
Me: It's honestly more natural haha well thanks for helping me settle the debate, and thanks for the win :wink:
Her: I totally agree :) no problem
Me; Lol you know what we should get coffee sometime and see who's theories are better :wink:
Her: Hahaha okay let's do it :)
Me: Lol awesome what day is good for you? :)
(btw this is all word for word)
After that she left me as seen and with no reply, honestly I thought the conversation was going pretty well, but I suppose I must have done something wrong if she just left me hanging. What do you guys think? I have a feeling I can still salvage this but idk I'm barely starting to get my feet wet in the whole world of being a pua and any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 5:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Where the hell did I go wrong?
I don't see anything here that makes it sound like you find her attractive or her finding you attractive. This could be a conversation between people in the same social circle.

In the big picture, the thing I hate most, is that you said that this girl has been sending you signals that she's interested and it seems like you are waiting for her to be the seducer. Wrong way to go. You have to turn it around so you are seducing her. If a girl shows you interest, you can't sit back and wait for things to happen and have a let's be pals and drink coffee conversations. You'll be seen as boring.
Author:  Mr.Alaska [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 4:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where the hell did I go wrong?
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In the big picture, the thing I hate most, is that you said that this girl has been sending you signals that she's interested and it seems like you are waiting for her to be the seducer. Wrong way to go. You have to turn it around so you are seducing her. If a girl shows you interest, you can't sit back and wait for things to happen and have a let's be pals and drink coffee conversations. You'll be seen as boring.
Honestly I was waiting till coffee to enter the seduction phase with dhv and kino escalation, my mind tends to always work best in field. Thank you though you make a good point move fast and get some ass, time to start reading the art of seduction.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where the hell did I go wrong?
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Honestly I was waiting till coffee to enter the seduction phase with dhv and kino escalation, my mind tends to always work best in field. Thank you though you make a good point move fast and get some ass, time to start reading the art of seduction.
Let's be real about this. The whole opinion opener that you used was the start of your seduction phase. The problem is that you tried to gauge her interest in you before acting on the interest she's already shown. Guys that try to gauge interest are boring. So you went from attractive guy to boring guy in a few lines of text and then asked her out for coffee.

Just another small note...if a girl reveals anything about her sexuality, don't offer her coffee.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 5:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where the hell did I go wrong?
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Just another small note...if a girl reveals anything about her sexuality, don't offer her coffee.
Author:  Mr.Alaska [ Thu Mar 17, 2016 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where the hell did I go wrong?
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Honestly I was waiting till coffee to enter the seduction phase with dhv and kino escalation, my mind tends to always work best in field. Thank you though you make a good point move fast and get some ass, time to start reading the art of seduction.
Let's be real about this. The whole opinion opener that you used was the start of your seduction phase. The problem is that you tried to gauge her interest in you before acting on the interest she's already shown. Guys that try to gauge interest are boring. So you went from attractive guy to boring guy in a few lines of text and then asked her out for coffee.

Just another small note...if a girl reveals anything about her sexuality, don't offer her coffee.

I get what you're saying there was a missed opportunity in exploring more of her sexuality and getting to know her more before moving in to the date, I'll definitely keep these words in mind. It just seems a little retarded how she would agree to a date and then leave me hanging, hopefully I can use my wits and pull a charming message out my ass later and see what happens. Thanks a lot for the help guys I really appreciate it.
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