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Author:  GKS [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
I just got back into online gaming. Mainly OKCupid since Tinder never works for me. Yea being minority sucks when it comes to 2-3 seconds split decision. Anyhow, I had some decent conversation on OKCupid but it seems that these chicks nowadays delete their profiles within days. Out of 60 chick I messaged, I checked back my sent inbox a few days later and more than half of them deactivated their profiles. Even a few that I was chatting with - they just deleted their profiles out of the blue.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
Honestly, online dating is just getting harder and harder, even though more and more apps are coming around and online dating should be fucking thriving considering how "acceptable" it has become, compared to 10 years ago when it was just plain old fucking weird and I was too scared to even make a pof profile until about 2009...

Having said that, my best results were about 8-12 months ago. I never had professional pictures, just a few selfies, but seemed to get lucky. I did have a bit of a catchy bio, but nobody really reads that until they already think you're hot anyway.

Match anything with a pulse > canned opener for the hot ones > wait for replies > get them on Facebook or SPAM as soon as possible and set a date.

But since then, Tinder has been ruined.
Author:  GKS [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
I feel the same way. About a year ago, online dating was so easy. I'd get like several dates a week. But now, I feel that too many other online dating app and site available so the chicks aren't really committed to a site. They would put a few lines for their profile - test it out for a few days then deactivate and jump to the next one. Or it has become something more casual and temporary. I had chicks that activate it when they are single. Found a date after like a week then deactivate their profile.

I though that I could get some side actions coming back to online gaming but so far, I wasted more time with less results than day gaming.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
The only thing I could suggest, is taking it to the next step a lot earlier. Try to get them on Facebook within your first 5 messages.

For example sake, something like this:

1. Opener
2. Some kind of joke/teasing/cocky funny or whatever.
3. Make it a little more human rather then staying in joke mode
4. A question about them, with a statement about you - maybe a little qualifying if that's your thing
5. "I feel weird talking on here. I feel like you could be some old paedophile from Germany pretending to be a hot girl! Haha. What's your Facebook or SPAM?" or "I don't get notifications from this app. What's your Facebook or SPAM?"

Also, Plenty of Fish is your best bet I reckon. I heard Tinder is really bad now.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
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Author:  GKS [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
The thing is that it's not even my game. Like I was teasing back and forth for a few banters with this chick, she was really interested and suggested a place and time for our date last night. I was so tired so I was gonna respond with my number this morning. I logged in earlier and she deleted her profile. Like WTH.... wasn't the first time it happened. And obviously wasn't a fake profile. This part I don't like about online gaming. I could run my game perfectly but before I could close some douchebag pissed her off and she deleted her profile. All my work went down the drain. :lol:
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it just me or dating sites are "bleh" nowadays?
Actually I take back what I said about PoF. PoF is only the best in my experience. I heard it's MUCH better to go to the sites that you actually have to pay for for them to be of any use. I also know a guy who uses a site similar to Adult Friend Finder and he gets laid all the fucking time. He's a lorry driver and somehow connects it with his work and fucks girls everywhere. It's not Adult Friend Finder though, not sure what he uses.
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