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| Author: | Jack1982 [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 8:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is she interested or just playing me? |
So I have been texting this girl (HB10, SUCCESSFUL AND FILTHY RICH) who lives in other country for two months. She told me right when we began texting that she was coming to my City in November (this month) and then I told her I would love to take her out to dinner. At first she seemed really interested and Willing to go out with me, then for an unknown reason she began getting more and more distant, especially after we talked once on the phone. Then one day she told me she felt hesitant about meeting me since we live so far away and that wouldn't lead to anything meaningful.I still chased her a little (I used to text her only once a week after that) and then one day when I texted her and told her I was sick she said "if you were really sick you should be resting and not texting". I just realized she was definitely shutting me out so I froze her out and said Goodbye. 10 days later she texted me saying "FIY - I was Being sarcastic. Sorry if you were offended". I replied right away, saying that I wasnt offended, and that I had just stopped talking because she would always shut me out and that I assumed she had just lost interest. She didnt say anything about Being interested or not. Then she asked me how I was I said "busy... I will be busy all weeks in November" and she said "Hey .. Lol I know what youre doing but I am not asking you out. I just wanted to know if you're okay, no need to shut me out" Later on she said she wouldnt try to make me interested in her again, and if she realized I wasnt interested anymore she would just stop talking. I told her things didnt need to have q defined end, that we could become only pen pals or maybe we could find a way to meet if she wanted to, but she if didnt want to meet, it would be fine as well. She said "I am not expecting anything" and then when I changed topic and asked her about her trip she said "well I gotta go now. Have a good night" Now... Do you think she is interested in going out with me, since she contacted me after the freeze out or is she just playing me??? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Nov 15, 2015 9:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is she interested or just playing me? |
She was in to you when she thought you were a "catch," and then bailed when her radar told her you may not be a "catch." THIS WHOLE THING (MEETING WOMEN) IS A GAME, IT IS A TEMPLATE. Keep working it (with other girls) and you will eventually develop the persona of a man in demand which they will buy into on a more consistent basis. Again, all of this is nothing more than a template game, so see it as such. |
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| Author: | Jack1982 [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 4:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is she interested or just playing me? |
Quote: She was in to you when she thought you were a "catch," and then bailed when her radar told her you may not be a "catch."
THIS WHOLE THING (MEETING WOMEN) IS A GAME, IT IS A TEMPLATE. Keep working it (with other girls) and you will eventually develop the persona of a man in demand which they will buy into on a more consistent basis. Again, all of this is nothing more than a template game, so see it as such. Thank you for your feedback but honestly do you think she is interested in meeting me or not? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 1:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is she interested or just playing me? |
She may be. Only 1 way to find out - talk to her again and see if she seems into it. My recommendation is to be more light and playful and less factual with her. Convince yourself that you have 10 other hot girls lined up wanting you right now. This mindset, applied non-arrogantly, can only help you. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Nov 18, 2015 3:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is she interested or just playing me? |
Quote: I told her I would love to take her out to dinner.
Should have been - 'Maybe if your cool, I'll let you hang out with me while in town!'What oceanx says + Why give a shit, she lives far away, so unless she's committed to a 'rendezvous', effort should be minimal. Quote: she said she wouldnt try to make me interested in her again, and if she realized I wasnt interested anymore she would just stop talking.
You; "That's fine, but you owe me...." Be lazy before filling in the blank. |
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