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thanks mate for the reply
I get the inner game stuff, im not shy and im comfortable around people. im also quite charismatic. but thanks for the advice I will be reading some inner game later on as to help me even more and to correct whatever I lack
what I want is this: I talk to girl, make her want to see me at my home. there we can watch movies/drink/smoke/etc then proceed to fuck. I have no particular goals in mind just the fact that I want to know how to make her want to meet me, hence the title.
and thanks for the clue. what I have been doing is this (and this is before I knew the game and puartsitry)
1. normal open (hey you look cute)
2. get to know each other through tinder
3. post a couple of topless moments
4. chat those who liked it and ask them out (this seemed needy and obvious)
5. I invite them to a bar near my place, they refuse.
6. end game. new target. or try again
can anybody help me in some sort of format form or tricks to make her want to meet me
cheers
I'm starting to see a pattern here. I get the inner game stuff, im not shy and im comfortable around people. im also quite charismatic. but thanks for the advice I will be reading some inner game later on as to help me even more and to correct whatever I lack
what I want is this: I talk to girl, make her want to see me at my home. there we can watch movies/drink/smoke/etc then proceed to fuck. I have no particular goals in mind just the fact that I want to know how to make her want to meet me, hence the title.
and thanks for the clue. what I have been doing is this (and this is before I knew the game and puartsitry)
1. normal open (hey you look cute)
2. get to know each other through tinder
3. post a couple of topless moments
4. chat those who liked it and ask them out (this seemed needy and obvious)
5. I invite them to a bar near my place, they refuse.
6. end game. new target. or try again
can anybody help me in some sort of format form or tricks to make her want to meet me
cheers
There are no 'magic tricks'. It's called building comfort!
You go from 1st gear hello, hit turbo, I need my dick sucked vibe.
That immediately throws her ASD switch into gear. Anti Slut Defense. A tactic so as to make the slut (or not a slut as the case may be) feel less guilty about being DTF.
Your outcome dependency is standing out like a fire truck in your driveway.
They can sense when you have an agenda. Instead, you should try to enjoy the interaction for what it is and not care so much about what she thinks or does.
This mindset allows you to be more relaxed and more fun in her mind. You can take more risks, later, then take initiative to be more sexual, as the interaction progresses.
Being less dependent on outcomes is one of the most important principles of getting better with women.
are there any threads or posts you should recommend me to read?
btw ive been texting this new girl(got her number thru tinder) and what I have been doing is just fluffs and negs, and im getting great replies. im trying to figure out a pattern which will work to most if not all girls to make them want me.
before reading your reply ive talked to this new hb 8 and im trying this one out. this is our convo on tinder
me: hey ive got a question to ask you
her: yes, (my name)
me: wow do i know you? haha
me: well anyways i need your female opinion on something
her: sure go ahead
me: ok. but first on a scale of 1-10 how would you rate yourself
after the opener i made a neg, then what im trying to do is to make her qualify her self to me. let me know what can I do and what could have been better. and what your approach would be
cheers.