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Author:  spiya [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 6:22 am ]
Post subject:  Where did I go wrong?
Hello,

Ive been talking to girls on FB but recently struggled to number close. Most of my convos are the same. My last convo was something like this:

After opening and building rapport,
Her: how monster are you?(playful convo from before)
Me: well I can't tell you everything, some things you have to find out on your own. ;)
Me:btw, do you have SPAM?
her: hahaha, yes I do
Me:whats the number and we can chat there. Hopefully you're better at being a monster there than you were here. :p
her: hmmm

I thought it was a line but was shocked with the response. Any suggestions for next time?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 4:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
Practice
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
No investment. She wasn't giving you much back and then you rewarding her boring behaviour by asking for her number.

Make it more fun. Try some role plays, get her to contribute. You will then develop some back and forth momentum and THEN suggest to do something together.

If you just ask a girl for her number without any reason for it. It makes you look chodey because that was your goal only

*in before Stephen King disagrees*
Author:  spiya [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
Thank you for the reply, I really appreciate it. If I wanted to continue this convo, how would you suggest I start again? Or is it a dead convo?
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 6:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
I would just start a new slate and get to practise.
Author:  spiya [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
Quote:
I would just start a new slate and get to practise.
That's what I thought too. Thank you
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
- That awkward moment when you’re trying to get over someone you never even dated.
Author:  spiya [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
Quote:
- That awkward moment when you’re trying to get over someone you never even dated.
You try to forget your failures. I try to think about my failures to learn from
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Nov 11, 2015 8:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
Quote:
- That awkward moment when you’re trying to get over someone you never even dated.

Bahaha
Author:  DrewDating [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 4:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
awesome, you posted just enough for this post to not be too long and just enough for me to know where you went wrong!

your answer
Quote:
Me:whats the number and we can chat there. Hopefully you're better at being a monster there than you were here. :p
her: hmmm
never, ever bring something up negative behavior she is giving you, especially while she is doing it.

instead, just roll with it and work around it to fix it.

reward her for good behavior, and if you dont have the rapport already then dont punish her for negative behavior.

also, dont get her number so you can just chat with her in another way, find a real reason why, hopefully the real reason why you want her number is so you can meet up with her and fuck her
Author:  spiya [ Thu Nov 12, 2015 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Where did I go wrong?
Quote:
awesome, you posted just enough for this post to not be too long and just enough for me to know where you went wrong!

your answer
Quote:
Me:whats the number and we can chat there. Hopefully you're better at being a monster there than you were here. :p
her: hmmm
never, ever bring something up negative behavior she is giving you, especially while she is doing it.

instead, just roll with it and work around it to fix it.

reward her for good behavior, and if you dont have the rapport already then dont punish her for negative behavior.

also, dont get her number so you can just chat with her in another way, find a real reason why, hopefully the real reason why you want her number is so you can meet up with her and fuck her
Makes sense. Thank you!
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