I am new to online dating,
I opened a girl with a simple line that worked "Hi, you visited my profile but you didn't even bothered to say a hi". She said hi and "I asked what do you "wish" from twoo?" After, she asked me I was very clear in my intent what I wanted (i didn't specified anything about a relationship, just created an idea that I want one, to avoid coming needy), and than she started to hit on me. So I tested her a bit, because I didn't wanted to look to cheap and eventually she had to work for the #.
The idea is that she hit on me and I kinda got confused at this subject. Actually, I'm confused when girls hit on me, because I don't know if I should lead or not, but I also feel that I loose attraction. So generally speaking how do you do when a girl is hitting on you, trying to lead the conversation? And is it ok to echange # and plan a date in less than 30 minutes of talking?
I need some reference points about:
when to pull a girl out of online dating?
When it's enough conversation to start the # exchange?
Should I deal different with this girl that hit on me than others? I'm thinking about being myself, a fun, happy and great guy! Should I act a little picky or should I go for the kiss at the first sight, because we talked about as a possible event (don't know to express this in English):
me: hmm, tempting to get a sweet girl.
she: how about me.
me: I should taste you first, but i trust that you are sweet.
she: we can meet and try
For me, go for the kiss and have fun:))
I'm keeping the situation simple, but I ask because I can learn something more that may be good to avoid some mistakes i may possible to do. Anyway, I'll have a lot o fun at the date!
What is your stor on this topic?