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Author:  Wing_man [ Wed May 27, 2015 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Online dating disaster
So I begun doing online dating as a part-time sarging. hmm

I'm not used to online dating but managed to get some advices from various PUA sites on how to setup my profile and how to come. But when I send messages, I hardly get a conversation. Most of them don't answer and if they answer, they say a hi and after I reply, no more replies.

I'm newbie to OD, but managed to think a strategy today: I will send messages to girls I like (50 is the limit on twoo i guess) trying different openers based on their profiles. I managed to make an interesting opener if you can tell me if it is good: "Tell me, if I have any chance to know you, considering that I'm the guy # 50.000 who writes to you? I'd rather go for a relationship, but depends what you want from your life."
So, so far after sending this I got 2 answers like: "To be honest, I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm just wasting time socializing here." So i begun busting their balls replying "guess this is not the best place for socializing, what you think?" and conversation started. But they seem very bored, maybe because of the bunch of the guys that send them shallow messages.

OD it's crazy... I managed to close a girl for me so fa. What openers do you use for OD? Definitely you must come with something really interesting, instead just a hi. Because i used to make a girl profile on badoo and in 2 hrs i was hit by 70 guys.... super, super crazy!!! So i think it requires an A game opening. After that you can be they way you want.

Advices? Openers for me? Your story?
Let's help each other... thanks!

p.s.: As I said, I'm testing the OD now with different profile description and openers. I will continue sharing here, when I have further results.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed May 27, 2015 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online dating disaster
Not a good opener at all.

It's boring. You're putting yourself down, qualifying yourself and you also mention the word relationship.

I'm also willing to bet the reason your conversations are fizzling out after a few exchanges is because they're boring as well.

Try this:

Say hi. Tell her she's cute and ask if she's also interesting as well. If she gives you a cheeky reply then you ask how well she can cook. With a winky face emoji.

It's all in your delivery. Say this properly and in the right context and you'll get replies... Say it wrong and they'll call you an asshole.

It's clear you're new to this - so don't get creative. But don't be so serious either.

It's online game. Be playful.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed May 27, 2015 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online dating disaster
Also - Maybe I'm just an old timer now... But I've never heard of OD... And Badoo sucks a dick.

Try Tinder or OKC... Or better yet, real life women!
Author:  Noone [ Wed May 27, 2015 9:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online dating disaster
Quote:
Also - Maybe I'm just an old timer now... But I've never heard of OD... And Badoo sucks a dick.

Try Tinder or OKC... Or better yet, real life women!
The thing about online dating for me is it just robs me of that.. feeling. The feeling you get when you see a girl and she has this profound effect on you.
Author:  Sparton [ Thu May 28, 2015 1:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Online dating disaster
the best replies I got was from poking fun at the women.
This is one of the emails I sent and got a reply back from

"You sound like you would be some fun! I could be TOTALLY wrong though! I saw on your profile that you have cats. I have to ask how many just to make sure your not a crazy cat lady!

For what it's worth, I'm 26 years old. I have my life together and I'm more than your usual amount of interesting and funny so you better be ready to laugh. Give me an email back... if you thing you can handle it, that is!"

I read a book on this, and yes some of it is copy and pasted, but it did work

This was the best approach I found to online dating on messaging. I still have to work on getting better pictures.

I sent another email to a chick telling her about her typo in her bio, she meant to say coast.
"Whelp I'm gonna be "that guy"... So you've lived on both costs? Sounds interesting... High cost or low cost? haha"

This worked actually. I didn't really expect it to do anything.

Online dating is a whole different ball game. Most of what I read say's you should be able to get their number within 2-3 emails. The first message I showed I got it in 3 and the second one was a little tougher to get took me about 5.

I got another response from a girl that I made fun of her for holding a rifle wrong. It deleted my email, timed out, but I think I asked if she got a pirate eye for not know how to hold a gun right.
she replied back saying she didn't and she was trying to be funny.
I think I emailed her 3 times and asked for a number, and I lost contact.

But it seemed to work best for me. Poke fun at them, playfully. the first night I tried that I only emailed 4 women and got two to respond and I've sent a few more and I have gotten replies.

at first my emails were dumb, simple, and boring. they were like "I see your into traveling, where's your favorite hot spot"? <-- this only worked once because the chick said "travel? where do you get that I like to travel?" It was literally in her bio. I copied and pasted her bio and made her look like a dumbass. That one didn't last to long either. I probably sent 100+ emails like this or similar and I think this was the only response I got... Literally.

Online dating is alright, I really haven't got it down either. The best night to get on is Sunday night.
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