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Author:  Jwatt [ Thu Feb 19, 2015 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Are texting apps necessary?
On tinder yesterday and matched to a solid HB8.5. Her bio stated,"thanks for thinking I'm a bot, makes this comforting and convenient" something along those lines.

Conversation goes as follows:

ME: hey there bot girl, lol
HER (next day): :|
ME: just trying to make things comforting and convenient. Your too cute to be a bot.

I check her bio again and it says "leg warmers on"

So I message like 2 hours later and she's still active

ME: I need some help here, what a good opener about leg warmers, that's not creepy or perverted?
HER: lol
ME: great, now that I've got you laughing, how do I get you talking ;)
Her: do u have KiK me app?
ME: I don't, but if you ask nicely I might give you my number ... Might
HER: forget it, I don't give my number to strangers

Before I can respond with anything at all, I mean barely read the sentence, the screen goes blank, and her match is gone.

1) Did I do anything that stands out as to why she freaked so suddenly? At first she was responding 10-20 hours in toward the end it was rapid fire (I know not a lot of exchange to begin with but a huge improvement in her response time)

2) Are texting apps that important to online dating sites/apps?
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Feb 19, 2015 10:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are texting apps necessary?
I don't do text apps, but at the same time there are women that I have not been able to seduce because I refuse. My reasoning behind it is that women are putting me in the same box that they are putting all of the other men that are trying for their attention. Give me a phone number and I'll call to set up a day that we can meet up.

Again, I probably miss out on women because of this. At the same time I'm not experiencing a shortage of women in my life.

To answer your first question, you didn't do anything wrong. You got her talking.
Author:  breedlove465 [ Thu Feb 19, 2015 10:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are texting apps necessary?
I'm behind the curve in online stuff because I just don't do it often but my opinion is that if a girl is asking for KIK then she's either fake and giving out KIK because it's not nearly as traceable as a number, or using KIK because she just wants a bunch of guys to talk too but not to actually meet up with them.

If a girl is attracted to you and you made a good impression, she'll give up the digits.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Feb 20, 2015 1:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are texting apps necessary?
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1) Did I do anything that stands out as to why she freaked so suddenly? At first she was responding 10-20 hours in toward the end it was rapid fire (I know not a lot of exchange to begin with but a huge improvement in her response time)
Girl wasn't interested from the get-go... You got cold, delayed replies. Not really sure you did a whole lot wrong, though.
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2) Are texting apps that important to online dating sites/apps?
I've never needed them. I've got What's App - but that's the same as texting... Something like KIK or another one of those freebie texter apps is for people who don't have text plans and need to use data/wifi to send messages instead of TXT.

It's not a huge loss. It's not like the conversation was super engaging with this girl anyway.
Author:  OG_Kdub [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are texting apps necessary?
Quote:
If a girl is attracted to you and you made a good impression, she'll give up the digits.
Tinder is all about looks, if the girl thinks you're cute or hot, you only need 2-3 messages to get her number. You don't have to be super funny or witty just direct.

You did nothing wrong and she saved you time.
Author:  oceanx [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 10:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are texting apps necessary?
No to texting apps. Get the girl's # or arrange a meetup from the initial app you met her on.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Feb 21, 2015 11:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Are texting apps necessary?
Don't waste another second her.

I get the feeling if you broke the ice on the 1st message that she could of been interested but you were 3/4 messages in by that point that depletes you of man points
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