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Author:  Piata [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 9:45 am ]
Post subject:  Tinger Messaging Example
Hey guys,
Broke up with a long term partner a couple of months ago and just getting back into the swing of things. It's been a long time and I need some critiquing of my messages with this chick.

Platform: Tinder
My age: 23
Her age: 20

Convo:

Me: Michael Kors and a Disney tatoo.. Interesting style
Her: Hehe I try, they're my favourite x
Me: Classy lady ey? I'm intrigued about this tattoo, you should add it to your photos.. I feel like I'm playing where's wally
Her: I have 'to infinity and beyond' tattoo'd between my shoulder blades x
Me: Do you imagine yourself as buzz lightyear when pressing those weights? x
Her: To be fair, a little. I love the gym x
Me: Brownie points for admitting that! I'd love to see someone throwing out moves like that but tbh it's normally me! x
Her: I need a gym bud x
Me: If you can demonstrate your skills count me interested x
<She didn't respond and I notice a weird emoticon guide she posted as a 'moment'. I used this to start it up again by using the "You're not my type" one>
Her: Why am I not allowed to message you again?
Her: Wait, I meant why am I not your type? x
Me: I'm worried you'll embarrass me at the gym x
Her: Haha why?! Thanks :( x
Me: Because you seem like a challenge. What if you show me up with your moved! x
Me: I'm kidding, I used to be a freelance personal training in my hometown. Adore this kinda stuff and I see a rare dedication in you x
Her: <rambles for a while about her body insecurities> .. I think you'll have to give me some personal training to get me to the standard your thinking of! And why are you 200km away?
Me: You've lost 2 stone, that's a great achievement. You best keep it up! And you'll be at that level if you can manage my workouts ;) And I'm going for business meetings with clients today.. Can't wait! x
Her: Are you coming back up? Where are you from down south? And thank you, I don't see it that way though (her progress)
Me: Course I'm coming back up, couldn't be missing out workout ;). Only here for business and to see my little brother and sister. Already miss city life! And you should be proud of how far you've come and look forward to how far your going to go missy! x
Her: Haha, good. I was about to say (regarding me coming up). And aww that's so cute. Where are you from down south?
Her: Thank you Mr. Motivator. I actually need to get a personal trainer
Me: Little town called <townname>. Walking the dog in fields, knowing every face in town, peace and quiet.. It's luxury! x
Me: And ok I'll be your trainer if you're up for the challenge xx
Her: You serious! I'm up for anything xx
Me: Course I am, why not ey. You can serve as motivation for me to go
<talk about which gym for a bit>
Me: So missy, what's your current regime and what's your target? xx
Her: I just do basic cardio. I need someone to whip my ass into shape
Her: And I want to be 8 stone xx
Me: Well I can certainly do that ;) xx
Her: What, whip my ass into shape? I really need it xx
Me: Well looks like you're in luck. That's my speciality
Her: I'm actually serious! xx
Me: Haha ok chill missy, I'll get you on track easy xx

Her: Hehe I'll hold you to that xx
Me: That you can, I always deliver. We need to get your ass squatting asap xx
Her: We do! Need to be motivated by you!! xx
Me: This isn't a one way street mischief xx
Her: I'll pay you! xx
Me: I don't need money. You can just be my gym chick or something xx
Her: That would be awesome. I would like to pay for it though xx
Me: It's a no! xx
Her: Alright boss xx
Me: That's better ;)
Her: Full of it! xx
Me: You think? xx
Her: 10000%
Me: It's my role as your trainer xx
Her: To be the boss? xx

Ok so basically I can't gauge the attraction level. When she was on about her ass being whipped into shape I was busy so sent shitty replies, but then again was she being sexual?

And where do I go from here? You can probably tell it's been a while!

Much love guys
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 1:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tinger Messaging Example
Very 'workout' focused. But if that's your thing, great.

She's interested in you, and now she's equally interested in free workout training. I'm not understanding the part where you're 200km apart though. What's up with that? I certainly hope you're not driving 200km to train this girl for free.

Anyway, you should have transitioned to text messaging by now (quicker the better, as long as you can do it without scaring her off -- with this one you'd have been fine after a few msgs likely).

You need to push for a meet ASAP. Whether it's a drink or whether it's this training/workout thing... And you need to be physical during that meetup.

As for the interaction itself, it's very wordy (and should have been via text)... but she responded well to you. Not bad.
Author:  GKS [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tinger Messaging Example
This is a Tinder conversation? I'm surprised that she stuck around that long. Try closing sooner mate. Use hook points to spike interest.
Author:  DrewDating [ Sun Nov 30, 2014 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tinger Messaging Example
Quote:
Hey guys,
Broke up with a long term partner a couple of months ago and just getting back into the swing of things. It's been a long time and I need some critiquing of my messages with this chick.

Platform: Tinder
My age: 23
Her age: 20

Convo:

Me: Michael Kors and a Disney tatoo.. Interesting style
Her: Hehe I try, they're my favourite x
Me: Classy lady ey? I'm intrigued about this tattoo, you should add it to your photos.. I feel like I'm playing where's wally
Her: I have 'to infinity and beyond' tattoo'd between my shoulder blades x
Me: Do you imagine yourself as buzz lightyear when pressing those weights? x
Her: To be fair, a little. I love the gym x
Me: Brownie points for admitting that! I'd love to see someone throwing out moves like that but tbh it's normally me! x
Her: I need a gym bud x
Me: If you can demonstrate your skills count me interested x
<She didn't respond and I notice a weird emoticon guide she posted as a 'moment'. I used this to start it up again by using the "You're not my type" one>
Her: Why am I not allowed to message you again?
Her: Wait, I meant why am I not your type? x
Me: I'm worried you'll embarrass me at the gym x
Her: Haha why?! Thanks :( x
Me: Because you seem like a challenge. What if you show me up with your moved! x
Me: I'm kidding, I used to be a freelance personal training in my hometown. Adore this kinda stuff and I see a rare dedication in you x
Her: <rambles for a while about her body insecurities> .. I think you'll have to give me some personal training to get me to the standard your thinking of! And why are you 200km away?
Me: You've lost 2 stone, that's a great achievement. You best keep it up! And you'll be at that level if you can manage my workouts ;) And I'm going for business meetings with clients today.. Can't wait! x
Her: Are you coming back up? Where are you from down south? And thank you, I don't see it that way though (her progress)
Me: Course I'm coming back up, couldn't be missing out workout ;). Only here for business and to see my little brother and sister. Already miss city life! And you should be proud of how far you've come and look forward to how far your going to go missy! x
Her: Haha, good. I was about to say (regarding me coming up). And aww that's so cute. Where are you from down south?
Her: Thank you Mr. Motivator. I actually need to get a personal trainer
Me: Little town called <townname>. Walking the dog in fields, knowing every face in town, peace and quiet.. It's luxury! x
Me: And ok I'll be your trainer if you're up for the challenge xx
Her: You serious! I'm up for anything xx
Me: Course I am, why not ey. You can serve as motivation for me to go
<talk about which gym for a bit>
Me: So missy, what's your current regime and what's your target? xx
Her: I just do basic cardio. I need someone to whip my ass into shape
Her: And I want to be 8 stone xx
Me: Well I can certainly do that ;) xx
Her: What, whip my ass into shape? I really need it xx
Me: Well looks like you're in luck. That's my speciality
Her: I'm actually serious! xx
Me: Haha ok chill missy, I'll get you on track easy xx

Her: Hehe I'll hold you to that xx
Me: That you can, I always deliver. We need to get your ass squatting asap xx
Her: We do! Need to be motivated by you!! xx
Me: This isn't a one way street mischief xx
Her: I'll pay you! xx
Me: I don't need money. You can just be my gym chick or something xx
Her: That would be awesome. I would like to pay for it though xx
Me: It's a no! xx
Her: Alright boss xx
Me: That's better ;)
Her: Full of it! xx
Me: You think? xx
Her: 10000%
Me: It's my role as your trainer xx
Her: To be the boss? xx

Ok so basically I can't gauge the attraction level. When she was on about her ass being whipped into shape I was busy so sent shitty replies, but then again was she being sexual?

And where do I go from here? You can probably tell it's been a while!

Much love guys
wayyyyy too much conversation - i get a number after about 4 - 6 messages... after i get there number i only message to meet up with them, no comfort building at all - number is only for logistics

if shes talking to you on online dating sites she is already attracted to you - go in for a number the sooner the better

message me if you have any questions about online dating
Author:  Piata [ Mon Dec 01, 2014 11:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tinger Messaging Example
Quote:
Quote:
Hey guys,
Broke up with a long term partner a couple of months ago and just getting back into the swing of things. It's been a long time and I need some critiquing of my messages with this chick.

Platform: Tinder
My age: 23
Her age: 20

Convo:

Me: Michael Kors and a Disney tatoo.. Interesting style
Her: Hehe I try, they're my favourite x
Me: Classy lady ey? I'm intrigued about this tattoo, you should add it to your photos.. I feel like I'm playing where's wally
Her: I have 'to infinity and beyond' tattoo'd between my shoulder blades x
Me: Do you imagine yourself as buzz lightyear when pressing those weights? x
Her: To be fair, a little. I love the gym x
Me: Brownie points for admitting that! I'd love to see someone throwing out moves like that but tbh it's normally me! x
Her: I need a gym bud x
Me: If you can demonstrate your skills count me interested x
<She didn't respond and I notice a weird emoticon guide she posted as a 'moment'. I used this to start it up again by using the "You're not my type" one>
Her: Why am I not allowed to message you again?
Her: Wait, I meant why am I not your type? x
Me: I'm worried you'll embarrass me at the gym x
Her: Haha why?! Thanks :( x
Me: Because you seem like a challenge. What if you show me up with your moved! x
Me: I'm kidding, I used to be a freelance personal training in my hometown. Adore this kinda stuff and I see a rare dedication in you x
Her: <rambles for a while about her body insecurities> .. I think you'll have to give me some personal training to get me to the standard your thinking of! And why are you 200km away?
Me: You've lost 2 stone, that's a great achievement. You best keep it up! And you'll be at that level if you can manage my workouts ;) And I'm going for business meetings with clients today.. Can't wait! x
Her: Are you coming back up? Where are you from down south? And thank you, I don't see it that way though (her progress)
Me: Course I'm coming back up, couldn't be missing out workout ;). Only here for business and to see my little brother and sister. Already miss city life! And you should be proud of how far you've come and look forward to how far your going to go missy! x
Her: Haha, good. I was about to say (regarding me coming up). And aww that's so cute. Where are you from down south?
Her: Thank you Mr. Motivator. I actually need to get a personal trainer
Me: Little town called <townname>. Walking the dog in fields, knowing every face in town, peace and quiet.. It's luxury! x
Me: And ok I'll be your trainer if you're up for the challenge xx
Her: You serious! I'm up for anything xx
Me: Course I am, why not ey. You can serve as motivation for me to go
<talk about which gym for a bit>
Me: So missy, what's your current regime and what's your target? xx
Her: I just do basic cardio. I need someone to whip my ass into shape
Her: And I want to be 8 stone xx
Me: Well I can certainly do that ;) xx
Her: What, whip my ass into shape? I really need it xx
Me: Well looks like you're in luck. That's my speciality
Her: I'm actually serious! xx
Me: Haha ok chill missy, I'll get you on track easy xx

Her: Hehe I'll hold you to that xx
Me: That you can, I always deliver. We need to get your ass squatting asap xx
Her: We do! Need to be motivated by you!! xx
Me: This isn't a one way street mischief xx
Her: I'll pay you! xx
Me: I don't need money. You can just be my gym chick or something xx
Her: That would be awesome. I would like to pay for it though xx
Me: It's a no! xx
Her: Alright boss xx
Me: That's better ;)
Her: Full of it! xx
Me: You think? xx
Her: 10000%
Me: It's my role as your trainer xx
Her: To be the boss? xx

Ok so basically I can't gauge the attraction level. When she was on about her ass being whipped into shape I was busy so sent shitty replies, but then again was she being sexual?

And where do I go from here? You can probably tell it's been a while!

Much love guys
wayyyyy too much conversation - i get a number after about 4 - 6 messages... after i get there number i only message to meet up with them, no comfort building at all - number is only for logistics

if shes talking to you on online dating sites she is already attracted to you - go in for a number the sooner the better

message me if you have any questions about online dating
Thanks for the advice. I like talking, it's natural to me. I've got the number and we're meeting for drinks in a couple of days. I do understand where all of you are coming from and will take the knowledge and apply it to future "plays".

Much love guys
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