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Author:  oblg [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 8:58 am ]
Post subject:  Was i too fast trying to close a date ?

Hey all,

Met a girl on tinder she said hey and we started talking (Saturday):

we chat a little .. i asked her will she be in my area on Tuesday, she said she is quite busy she is working all week ,i asked her what she is looking for (in the app) she said she is less into flings and said "you probably don't arrive to my area so often right ?"
told her the same about flings and said if i had a good reason to come to her area i will do that , she said "great :)" , then asked for my FB

On FB we chat a little i asked her when she has a free evening this week , she said Sunday and maybe Tuesday she needs to check , so i told her we could go on to drink something on Sunday i know a great place
she said sounds great and she will talk to me tomorrow just in case that they will not call her for a shift
i said cool will talk tomorrow.

On Sunday she didn't talk to me at all and i waited for her answer because i didn't want to be needy.
later that evening i went to a football game with friends and tagged myself there so if she will look she would know i didn't wait for her message and was out , and that's it.
I sent her a message(FB) on Tuesday she didn't answer

what do you guys think i should have done better ?
was i trying too fast to close a date ? maybe try to talk more ?

Author:  WillEdward [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Was i too fast trying to close a date ?

You want to close the date as soon as possible. There are many things that can distract her if you don't. Life events get in the way, she becomes interested in another guy. She will be attracted with you, the more direct you are and the less you beat around the bush. You should have sent a ping text on Sunday to confirm the date. You also want to go for the number close on Tinder just to make solving logistics easier. What message did you send to her on Tuesday?

Author:  oblg [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Was i too fast trying to close a date ?

Hi WillEdward , i guess you right about the ping message , i just felt at that moment that if i did send her a message i will look to her as someone who wants to much , maybe that was a wrong decision.

On Tuesday i saw that she was connected by mobile , i just wrote "Hi what's up ?" she didn't answer
she probably worked that night and that's it.

What do you think i should do next to get her attention ?

Thanks!

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