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Author:  JayMunroe [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Online game number close help

Hey,

ive had an interaction with this girl on badoo about three times, this is how the thrid one went

"Hey I noticed that you have different sides to yourself: intellectual, fun, food lover, and music lover
Which one best describes you?'

"food lover..id go with that:D"

" I see, my family makes the best caribbean dishes, well hot and cooked. Are you a good cook?"

"yes i am..:)'

"It's amazing that you know how to cook. You just earn some major points on my attraction scale"

"aha..thanks.. wait..can you cook?"

"Yeah getting better, my favourite is the fried rice curry with chicken
I know a good restaurant in the area too, I could show you some good food choices"

She read the message and did not repond after that. What should i have said, can i save the conversation?

Author:  Darkie [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 8:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

Your having a regular conversation that can easily lead you into the friend zone. You qualified her and she jumped through your loop. You should have escalated with some flirting or sexual innuendos.
Let a couple days pass and give her time to respond. If she doesnt then just act like the silence was never there. Try to reopen with a situational opener

Author:  JayMunroe [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 10:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

Hey

Thanks for the advice. So at what part of the interaction should you start to flirt with her?

Author:  Vlads [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

Quote:
Hey

Thanks for the advice. So at what part of the interaction should you start to flirt with her?
whatever you want, start involving feelings, it's not a job interview.

Author:  Dragula [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 11:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

You need more investment.

Ask her if she was gonna impress you, what would she cook you... See what she says

Her answers were too brief. Not a good time to go on a date. It's a girl being bitchy to you in person , and then you ask her on a date, you're rewarding shitty behaviour.

If she starts messaging you questions etc you know she is invested a bit, THEN ask her on a date.

Author:  recci [ Mon Apr 21, 2014 2:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

When she said "aha..thanks.. wait..can you cook?"

Id have said something like "yeah but thats your job :wink: ", Or something that shows you can cook but you dont do it for just any girl.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Apr 21, 2014 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

All of your messages are long and elaborate. She's replying with 5 words each time, and not asking questions back. She's not invested in you...

You could possibly steer her back into things if you can make things interesting again.

Author:  BradHoliday [ Tue Apr 22, 2014 1:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Online game number close help

Hey Man,

Two things,

1. You Need more volume.

You need to send out 10X the amount of messages you are currently sending. Massive volume is the key to approaching and online dating.

2. Use the same script for every girl.

"be the mcdonalds of game... every girl gets the same happy meal"

Close with something like this line:

"Okcupid is cool, but I prefer to text... whats your number babe"

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