I recently relocated to Chicago. I always try online dating first to see If I can win some cheep dates. After all its a huge city, there's got to be some babes that want to hang out. Found some good photos, made a good profile.

BUT...

I don't know what it is, but I have been using POF and OKcupid and have had TERRIBLE luck on there.

I've used it before for my small town and in Nashville and had mixed results and a few lays. But in Chicago it is HORRIBLE!

All the women on there are complete cunts! And 90% just look at your profile and don't respond. I've tried every opener, and several different profiles.

My thoughts are:

1) In a large city like Chicago there are a lot of hot girls on the site, however there is probably like 10x more dudes. Every women has her pick from over 50+ dudes probably every day. So unless your a rockstar or Chaning tatum she will probably view you and lose you.

2) Women use, especially hot women, don't use POF/dating sites seriously. They go on there, throw up a shitty profile just to get attention and validation. Plus its the internet so women can be as bitchy and stuck up as they want. In person they would probably be a lot more polite.

3) If a women, esp hot ones, really wanted to online date, they would probably use a paid site, like Match, or Eharmony. (I haven't actually tried a paid site so I can't really judge.)

I would recommend never using online dating. It's just not worth it. It will only work to lower your self esteem and in the end make you lazy and not go out and sarge. Hurting your game. The real game is outside.

Thoughts? How has others online experience been?

There's a lesson to be learned here, I think... when something doesn't work, it can be because it just plain sucks and never will work, OR it can be because you're doing something wrong. Goes for everything in life really. Giving up in anger and quitting isn't always the smartest thing to do.

If you started reading some good material on online dating I'm sure you'd spot an area or two in which you could have improved your game:)

I recently relocated to Chicago. I always try online dating first to see If I can win some cheep dates. After all its a huge city, there's got to be some babes that want to hang out. Found some good photos, made a good profile.

BUT...

I don't know what it is, but I have been using POF and OKcupid and have had TERRIBLE luck on there.

I've used it before for my small town and in Nashville and had mixed results and a few lays. But in Chicago it is HORRIBLE!

All the women on there are complete cunts! And 90% just look at your profile and don't respond. I've tried every opener, and several different profiles.

My thoughts are:

1) In a large city like Chicago there are a lot of hot girls on the site, however there is probably like 10x more dudes. Every women has her pick from over 50+ dudes probably every day. So unless your a rockstar or Chaning tatum she will probably view you and lose you.

2) Women use, especially hot women, don't use POF/dating sites seriously. They go on there, throw up a shitty profile just to get attention and validation. Plus its the internet so women can be as bitchy and stuck up as they want. In person they would probably be a lot more polite.

3) If a women, esp hot ones, really wanted to online date, they would probably use a paid site, like Match, or Eharmony. (I haven't actually tried a paid site so I can't really judge.)

I would recommend never using online dating. It's just not worth it. It will only work to lower your self esteem and in the end make you lazy and not go out and sarge. Hurting your game. The real game is outside.

Thoughts? How has others online experience been?

I would recommend never using online dating. It's just not worth it. It will only work to lower your self esteem and in the end make you lazy and not go out and sarge. Hurting your game. The real game is outside.

Yeah it plain sucks. I have been trying it for over a year. Women there seriously play the crap out of you. I have been played so many times. Now there is no hot babes on there but there were a lot last year. Sent some girl a message and she blocked me and she was the last hot on in my area so screw this I am going back to regular game. At least in field I get the decency to tell me to screw off where online I just get deleted and it is one of the stupidest things when girls don't talk online. Screw it they are gold digging and cherry picking online anyway. At least I know I can get laid the same night of approaching a girl in the field. Online you have to wait days or weeks for them to even get the message to only find out you got blocked. Screw it, I am gonna rant.

Saw 4-8 potential true hotties (9-10's) in the last year on POF that I hit up. The last friggin year man. I saw more hotties than that on a single night out at the Club and Bar in one night last Summer. In one night compared to all year! The truth is true hotties don't go online cuz they go out to meet eligible men and the dating pool is so small of viable hotties they act completely stuck up and never got a single # from these online hotties I hit up (But I got 30 #'s from sarging in field). It is one of the least reliable sources of women.

Had no trouble getting digits from (9-10's) at the Clubs and Bars hmmm. So the heck with it it is lame. Some mega hottie on there was like "I DON'T DO RANDOM HOOKUPS AND GET RID OF THE SHIRTLESS PICKS OR DON'T MESSAGE ME AND DON'T WASTE ANYONE'S TIME WITH THAT." She used all caps like how rude. And she has the nerve to say that on a hookup site. Like WTF is she saying she wants to start a family on a site like POF. Chicks are just crazy online man super crazy. I give up back to the field, the trusted and true way to get chicks.

Couple of years ago i was killing online game, fast foward two years and I cant get laid in a morgue... It is a #s game def. I throw it out to at least 20 chicks a day, maybe 4 will get back at ya, might get two #s and one actual date...given she dosent flake. I agree in-field is way more effective, also helps build confidence and charcter which can not be done online.