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How to revert girls who are "not interested".
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Author:  GAPP [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 8:46 pm ]
Post subject:  How to revert girls who are "not interested".
Hey guys,

So basically, I've been in the game for a while, and recently started catching up on the online dating sites, as I just got out of a relationship.

So basically this is the outline:

I open them with some kind of personal message, that displays what I think the girl wants to hear bascially, from of her profile. So I open this HB10, and she responds, "thanks you for the message, but unfortunately, you're not exactly what I'm seeking, hope you have a good day. :)".

What's your best responds to girls, who seem not interested? Usually before, I would just skip them as it's too much of a hazzle, but given my competitive nature, I wanna revert them, so I have a few interesting ideas. Before I post these, if someone with some style, could post what they would do, let's get some funny banter going, on this subject.
Author:  Zvesdan [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to revert girls who are "not interested".
Well one thing i learned about HB10's is that you don't compliment them you NEG them. if you compliment you gave up value, because she probably wants someone who is different. 10's knows there bomb hot or whatever so getting compliments get you no where when you talk to someone who probably gets hit on and compliments on a daily basis. you gotta bring them down a level that's what negging is for and it's (usually from what i seen) the best way to handle them you give up no value and you bring them down a level. This is just for future reference as of how not to reverse the non interest, they are actually plenty of ways though i do not believe i have the right exp. to suggest on what exactly to say but hopefully some will :)
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 12:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to revert girls who are "not interested".
If an ugly fat girl came up to you and started hitting on you and you told her your not interested but she kept hitting on you... would that make you like her more or just annoy you? What could she realistically do to make you like her? I'm guessing not much.

If a chick isn't interested then shes not interested. Move on as there isn't much you can do about it except annoy her.
Author:  JJoj [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to revert girls who are "not interested".
Quote:
If an ugly fat girl came up to you and started hitting on you and you told her your not interested but she kept hitting on you... would that make you like her more or just annoy you? What could she realistically do to make you like her? I'm guessing not much.

If a chick isn't interested then shes not interested. Move on as there isn't much you can do about it except annoy her.
I partially agree with this post....

I've had fat, ugly girls hit on me repeatedly lots of times... sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't. I don't like it when they neg repeatedly, try to get me to take them out on dates that will cost me money, get sad, refuse to be friend zoned, act desperate, or act disruptive. It doesn't bother me when they act righteously angry as long as it seems like they aren't trying to upset me or manipulate me; I think it's cute. Let's face it--there's something adorable about a girl who is convinced that she is your soulmate, even if you don't see things the same way. I do like it when they are chill, free, and convenient--and I am looking for something to do.

That stated, if a girl on POF flat-out says she's not interested, it's likely BS. A girl on POF who is not interested will simply not respond. I've heard that line a couple of times but only from girls who had actually really liked me who got jealous. I've never actually reconnected with any of those girls (I wasn't that interested), but I think it could be done by giving some space, not inducing jealousy, and then reconnecting in a way that shows you actually like her.

She likely has a fake profile set up to filter out guys who are hitting on other chicks, and you sent it a message. I used to run into that all the time when I was new to online dating.... There are ways to try turn it around, but frankly, why bother....
Author:  GKS [ Tue Dec 24, 2013 12:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to revert girls who are "not interested".
How do you turn a lion vegan? You don't. He will always eat the meat he likes to eat. End of the story.
Author:  PUAHollywood [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 2:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to revert girls who are "not interested".
Tell her you are about to move on and are giving her 1 more chance to get more serious about paying attention to you!! lol
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 7:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to revert girls who are "not interested".
You need to accept that not all girls will be attracted to you - even if you're Brad Pitt.

If she's not interested and told you so - then she's not. You won't be changing her mind via a dating site or app with any kind of witty one-liner.

In the OP's particular case, she was even nice about it.
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