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| Author: | lucifer7 [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 12:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
I met this girl some days ago and she didn't seem too open but gave it a try anyway. ME Hey xxx, nice meeting you the other day in... What was it, DM? Anyway, I'd like to get a drink with you one of these evening if you're not completely against the idea so just lemme know your schedule and we'll try to set it up HER i told You About my boyfriend  and the next weeks im to busy anYway. Writing m Bachelor thesis .. Hope u are doing Fine ME That's cool, I usually try anyway Enjoy 
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| Author: | Redlight [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
Hey man, some remarks from my side... Quote:
ME
First of all, you didn't fluff talk at all, went straight to business, without giving her a reason to want to meet with you... make a reference to some cool, crazy party you are going to, or this amazing sushi place you recently discovered, whatever you think may be interesting for her... second, you were being a bit insecure about her wanting to meet up, your frame of communication should always be that girls want to meet you... third, you were too accommodating with her schedule and all... Hey xxx, nice meeting you the other day in... What was it, DM? Anyway, I'd like to get a drink with you one of these evening if you're not completely against the idea so just lemme know your schedule and we'll try to set it up Quote:
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She wasn't totally against meeting you... she gave you the thesis excuse, to which you could have replied "Let me know when you have passed your exam and we'll celebrate... I know this great club, bla, bla, bla..." and kept going about a neutral topic, establishing her interest in you...i told You About my boyfriend and the next weeks im to busy anYway. Writing m Bachelor thesis .. Hope u are doing Fine
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ME
You simply gave up... next time ignore the excuse, don't discuss the boyfriend (there's a small chance he's not even real) and plow ahead with the convo... keep it interesting and flirty...That's cool, I usually try anyway Enjoy Good luck! |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
Quote: I met this girl some days ago and she didn't seem too open but gave it a try anyway.
You asked in a very beta way (asked her schedule, qualified your request with the "if you're not completely against the idea" etc..) but that is not the real problem here. The real problem is that you asked out a girl who brought up a boyfriend who seems to have already rejected you. I've said it many times, despite the shit people spew here, GAMING GIRLS WHO SAY THEY HAVE A BOYFRIEND IS A BIG FUCKING WASTE OF TIME. Yes you can succeed, just like you can win the lottery, but the odds are low. She is not interested, move on.
ME Hey xxx, nice meeting you the other day in... What was it, DM? Anyway, I'd like to get a drink with you one of these evening if you're not completely against the idea so just lemme know your schedule and we'll try to set it up HER i told You About my boyfriend and the next weeks im to busy anYway. Writing m Bachelor thesis .. Hope u are doing Fine ME That's cool, I usually try anyway Enjoy |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
You tried, but move on. |
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| Author: | lucifer7 [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 5:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
Yeah, I know it was not easy since the beginning, I just wanted to give it the best shot anyway. The "beta way of asking" was a kind of psychological thing as if you phrase it that way the first reaction is "I'm not *completely against* the idea" My reply wanted to convey an image of "adventurer asshole" (I *usually* try) that might have aroused curiosity and she might have (possibly) had an interest in meeting (or keep engaging). At that point I couldn't see many other was to change the situation without chasing when "she's gonna be busy anyway in the next weeks". I guess that the "lemme know when you're done with your exam" might have given more chances or at least kept the door ajar. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
Quote: Yeah, I know it was not easy since the beginning, I just wanted to give it the best shot anyway.
Honestly, you are asking us for strategy on how to beat LeBron James in basketball. The real issue here is gaming a woman who clearly expressed no interest who you have no chance with. All these little details are missing the big picture.
The "beta way of asking" was a kind of psychological thing as if you phrase it that way the first reaction is "I'm not *completely against* the idea" My reply wanted to convey an image of "adventurer asshole" (I *usually* try) that might have aroused curiosity and she might have (possibly) had an interest in meeting (or keep engaging). At that point I couldn't see many other was to change the situation without chasing when "she's gonna be busy anyway in the next weeks". I guess that the "lemme know when you're done with your exam" might have given more chances or at least kept the door ajar. |
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| Author: | lucifer7 [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 9:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
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Honestly, you are asking us for strategy on how to beat LeBron James in basketball. The real issue here is gaming a woman who clearly expressed no interest who you have no chance with. All these little details are missing the big picture.
True, but my point was how to "maximize the chances", not "how to get this girl", meaning that bringing the chances from 0.01 -like I did- to 1% would have already been great.And to beat LeBron.. Simple! Get a time machine to bring MJ back
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| Author: | PissAngel [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
Get one of your friends to text her anonymously (someone she doesn't know) and say that her boyfriend's been cheating on her. Then try again a day later. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Dec 08, 2013 2:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
lol ^ |
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| Author: | lucifer7 [ Sun Dec 08, 2013 6:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last chance text: was it the best way? Give me feedback |
Quote: Get one of your friends to text her anonymously (someone she doesn't know) and say that her boyfriend's been cheating on her. Then try again a day later.
Ehehe pure genius 
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