maybe you complimented her to quick honestly i would have said "you look decent so whats your name
"but look at her page to see what she's interested in, and indirectly push the convo that direction for instance
if she likes animals you can say this
"nice to meet you Jadie, im ___, idk if you like animal but ive always wanted a pet (insert favortie animal or random over the top animal) named jadie"
but gaming online still needs confidence because a lack of confidence will make you word something the wrong way and end up messing you up, so be confident with what you say and make it interesting