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Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..options?
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Author:  apetoape [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 6:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..options?
So I've been exchanging messages with this girl (HB8).

The first thing she said to me was that she felt I might be too good for her, following by a I'm currently going through a divorce.

Regardless, she gave me her number and we've been texting back and forth all week, with great banters. I've got her to send me more pics of herself, nothing explicit.

So as she was sending me pics yesterday, I told her I want to meet and hangout soon. She responded with a LOL. Told her I'm ok if shes not comfortable yet and that we can keep on talking until she is. She gave me another LOL and a smiley face.

I tried to lighten the mood by saying, hahaha looooooser :). She responded back with :

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"Me no friends with you no more, ApetoApe"
"Bye Bye Apetoape"
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She speaks perfect english so I'm not why she wrote that retarded message. Sounds like a joke, but I texted back saying its an affectionate thing I say to all my friends. Havent heard from her since.

Is there anything I can do here, or is this pretty much game over? I'm thinking of sending her a "sorry if I offended you" note on her email.

Help.
Author:  hackney [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
the rules would say:
You are having a oneitis, get rid of her. If you feel like answering "I'm not", then get rid of her.
Freeze her. Do not reply to her unless she replies to you.

I've been through quite the same for the last two weeks. I know what you are going through. Trust me, forget her. It's for the best. Yes she is right: you are too good for her.
Author:  detox75 [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 7:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
Don't waste your time on problem chicks and weak prospects. She isn't compliant after this much time them just freeze her out/ignore her until she becomes more compliant if ever.
Author:  Crypto [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 3:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
The girl is going through a divorce...She is emotionally unavailable so don't try to connect with her! If all you want is some ass then bombard her with emotionally charged messages that take her all over the place.

Wait a few days then open her again with something witty/funny. "I've decided that dating is more difficult than finger painting, so I will be starting my career as an artist instead. Wanna join me?"

Peace...
Author:  TheFury [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
Sounds like you came off way too needy and chatted her way too much before just arranging a meeting.

Quote:
So I've been exchanging messages with this girl (HB8).

The first thing she said to me was that she felt I might be too good for her, following by a I'm currently going through a divorce.

Regardless, she gave me her number and we've been texting back and forth all week, with great banters. I've got her to send me more pics of herself, nothing explicit.

So as she was sending me pics yesterday, I told her I want to meet and hangout soon. She responded with a LOL. Told her I'm ok if shes not comfortable yet and that we can keep on talking until she is. She gave me another LOL and a smiley face.

I tried to lighten the mood by saying, hahaha looooooser :). She responded back with :

-----
"Me no friends with you no more, ApetoApe"
"Bye Bye Apetoape"
----

She speaks perfect english so I'm not why she wrote that retarded message. Sounds like a joke, but I texted back saying its an affectionate thing I say to all my friends. Havent heard from her since.

Is there anything I can do here, or is this pretty much game over? I'm thinking of sending her a "sorry if I offended you" note on her email.

Help.
Author:  apetoape [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 9:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
Ah, that could very well be the case. I chatted her up so she would start sending me pics and be more comfortable sending explicit pics. Thought that would make the first meeting more sexually charged. Guess it failed when I pushed for the hangout myself.
Author:  apetoape [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 3:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
Ignored her like everyone advised....it worked. 4 days later she texted back. Looks like a feeler text, telling me about some random thing that happened to her today. Terribly boring story as well.

My instinct is telling me to give it a few days to respond to her. Any advice from you gents? Ask her for nudes to make up??
Author:  dlightmen [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 4:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl on OKC- Went from Hot to Cold in an instant..option
You were being AFC not pua.

HB: you might be too good for me.
PUA: yeah, I do get that a lot. Being a super hero is not easy. But good thing I don't let it go to my head. : p

Haha! Why do you say that?


HB: I just got finished with a divorce.

Pua: really? You left him for me already? Slow down! For all you know I could be some 60 year old fat dude living in my moms basement, watching star trek re~runs and posting fake online profile!

Just kidding! That really sucks. Or is it a good thing?



The idea is to defuse with cocky humor. Then show interest in her well being and start some meaningful conversation.


Keep at! You got her number! So you're creating some attraction through your profile and messaging.

Now work in texting and closing day2's.
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