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| Author: | JSmooth [ Sun Feb 17, 2008 1:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | CHAT SESSION: # Close and Date Closed |
Okay everyone is bugging me about chat session what to say and what to do. This girl sent me a message saying she liked my profile and was interested with her yahoo IM, so I messaged her and here is what happened. ![]() J Smooth: that was quick HB: Hey HB: how are you tonight J Smooth: great and yourself HB: just sittin' here chillin' talkin' to my old roomate on the phone J Smooth: Cool, I'm fixing to head out for the evening but wanted to say Hi J Smooth: A friend of mine called me up and wants to take me to Zanies J Smooth: she's crazy about this one comic whoever he is HB: oh I've been there J Smooth: I really did enjoy reading your quick profile HB: well thank you J Smooth: there isn't much to go off of on the site HB: nope HB: I hate the people that don't put anything though J Smooth: No kidding how stupid is that J Smooth: Like I said before you're cute but I was curious as to what else you had going on for you HB: quite a bit HB: lol J Smooth: like... HB: well I'm a musician/writer/singer so that keeps me busy most of the time HB: I also produce too J Smooth: what genre of music HB: I'm an administrative assistant on music row during the day HB: Rockabilly primarily but classic style country also J Smooth: So you're telling me you are more than a pretty face J Smooth: alright HB: oh heck ya honey J Smooth: aww she called me honey HB: lol J Smooth: I like your confidence HB: thanks J Smooth: you are welcome J Smooth: that speaks a lot for a person HB: I produce... so I know how to be a hardass when I need to lol HB: sure does HB: I'm a hard worker too J Smooth: excellent J Smooth: Those are some very good answers J Smooth: Have you met many people from online? HB: so did I pass the preliminary J Smooth: I suppose HB: a few but nothin' worth my time lol J Smooth: Pretty much the same thing here HB: ya J Smooth: although one girl I met online has become one of my best friends J Smooth: but that was rare HB: well that is great HB: yes it is J Smooth: A few other quick questions before I pass you J Smooth: Are you any kind of psycho murderous serial killer? HB: ok lol HB: just when I was in NY... I'm clean now HB: HB: just kidding J Smooth: Do you believe in bondage or have joined any cults J Smooth: that's halarious HB: when I was 2 I was in this polish cult J Smooth: LOL J Smooth: HB: they forced us to make kilbasa 24 hrs a day HB: lol J Smooth: LOL J Smooth: Well there are three qualities I find myself attracted to, someone with a good outlook, personality, and a great energy J Smooth: you atleast have 2 of the 3 J Smooth: you're off to a good start HB: lol J Smooth: HB: J Smooth: So, look I am about to have to leave, but since you are here I figure I might as well see if you are free one day next week HB: which day J Smooth: I figure the best way to get to know someone is in person HB: yup J Smooth: you can save a lot of time HB: sure can J Smooth: How's tomorrow evening for you? HB: really busy tomorrow J Smooth: well from Thursday on I have plans J Smooth: M-W? HB: How about Weds HB: that is about the only evening I'm free J Smooth: I get off at six, we could grab dinner or drinks somewhere HB: sure J Smooth: What area of town are you in HB: I'm home around 6 as well HB: brentwood J Smooth: I'm in hermitage HB: oh ok J Smooth: So do you want to meet somewhere around Vandy? J Smooth: is that about half way? HB: sure J Smooth: ok, are you familiar with Cabana HB: not really J Smooth: www.cabananashville.com HB: ok... wait is it on west end? J Smooth: well it's next to the Terrace and Sunset Grill J Smooth: also near pancake pantry HB: ok J Smooth: we could meet there at like 7 HB: sure that sounds great J Smooth: Great HB: let me give you my number incase something comes up J Smooth: shoot HB: xxx-xxx-xxxx J Smooth: xxx-xxx-xxxx J Smooth: lastly do you have anymore pictures J Smooth: that one on the site was cute but limited HB: not on this pc J Smooth: fair enough HB: sorry J Smooth: some other time then HB: Well I'll let you go HB: ttyl J Smooth: By Wednesday it won't matter HB: lol J Smooth: Great, thanks I'm going to be late J Smooth: Good Night, TTYL HB: sorry HB: night J Smooth: no worries, later Feel free to critque. This conversation took less than 10 minutes. Hope it helps some of you who have asked me for examples. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 7:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: CHAT SESSION: # Close and Date Closed |
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J Smooth: So, look I am about to have to leave, but since you are here I figure I might as well see if you are free one day next week
You did good in that you got the date. Here's one thing I would have done differently though. When she said "which day", I would have immediately thrown out a day that was a few days away. I also would have said, before that "I've got to go. We need to get together in person and talk more."HB: which day J Smooth: I figure the best way to get to know someone is in person HB: yup J Smooth: you can save a lot of time HB: sure can J Smooth: How's tomorrow evening for you? HB: really busy tomorrow Feel free to critque. This conversation took less than 10 minutes. Hope it helps some of you who have asked me for examples. So: "I've got to go. We need to get together in person and talk more." "Which day" "I don't have time until Monday evening. Say, 7 pm." Of course she wouldn't have been free, but then you could have stretched it for Wednesday like you did. I wouldn't have jumped on the "How's tomorrow evening for you?" line. That's too much interest too quick. But that's my opinion. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 1:29 pm ] |
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That's a very good point L.A. I think it was a little too needy. I should have said something like Monday at 7pm like you said and then backed it up. Also, I agree that I should have explained I should have just asked her out right then. I appreciate the help! Well, the date went well. My field report is up about it but basically just a good dinner, and a k-close. |
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