you are over gaming. just ask her for her number etc.

I was trying not to over game her, and I don't think I did just kept the convo going. I did however break one cardinal rule and went for the fb. Might not have been the right thing to do, but I got a super conservative vibe from this girl and wasn't sure about # close because we only started talking this morning. She seems cool, but I'm not gonna get hung up if it works out cool if not I'll know better for next time. Thanks for the advice!

You are over gaming. Don't decide for her whether or not she is ready to give you her number, just ask for her for it. I even have a method to ask for it without asking for it. Don't worry about transitions etc. etc. you met through an online dating site, everyone knows what's up, just ask to set up a date.

Well. Brother Here's an update. Its a pain in the ass loging into POF from my phone so I msg'd her and told her to add me on fb. Which I know is not cool and and very rarely yields results, but like I said I'm new to the online game and its not my strong point, but my phone just went off and she added me on fb. So maybe I got a litte beginners luck lol. Thanx for the advice I appreciate it!

Ok, you got added on fb, now what? Do you want to be facebook friends, or to date her/hook up with her in real life? SO ask her out now.