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| Author: | silverback [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 10:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting In Her Head |
Okay so I just had a date with this awesome girl I met online. She is choice! Super fit, sexy, cute, personality and so on. We hit it off and I kiss closed her but now comes the task of really getting in her head. I can always get to the kiss close easy enough but after that becomes a bit more of a challenge. I find anymore that a kiss close barely means shit to women these days. Anyway this girl is open to a relationship but skeptical because of a bad one recently that she had. What can I do to really get her thinking about me day and night WITHOUT coming across as needy or trying to push her too hard which of course will drive her away. This one I like and really want to see it go somewhere beyond just a great date and kiss. I guess I'm just looking for a little advice as to next steps to ensure "sealing the deal" so to speak. Thanks |
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| Author: | Kabi [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 11:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting In Her Head |
Of everything you wrote, this is what I actually see. You want her as your gf. And I hope you dont show it like an AFC. We are men. Not pussies. Kiss closing: Dont think that kiss closing means shit. What you think, becomes your reality. It fuckes up your mind, your soul, your day, the meaning of what we guys do, the meaning of life. You are not the only man that talked to her/ is talking to her. She choose to meet up with you. She choose to kiss you. She is choosing to keep talking to you. Positive mind = Positive results. You're doing good. If she says that she is sceptical about having a relationship because of bad experience. I say that this is bullshit. Dont let this affect you. Only thing that can be is that she isnt sure if she is ready for a relationship. The last one may have been really bad. And she dont want that to happen again. She dont want to feel hurt again. But as I said, this is bullshit because... After breaking up, she was really sad. Felt lonely. Thought alot about her ex, and their relationship. But she also thought about moving on, and the next relationship she will have, about what she wants in her next guy, how her next relationship should be. If you haven't thought about this. It will now make you into a champion. I belive we all do that. Not only women. All I can say, dont be needy or eager. What I mean is All the emotions you may feel as: - Wanting to be with her. - Wanting to kiss her. - Wanting to kama sutra her. - Talk to her. You can show interest, but dont overdo it, leave those emotions to her. When you get her to be feeling this, and showing it. She is mind fucking you, literally thinking about you everyday. You are the man! You have to show her you are a man. You need to show her excitement and fun. You need to show her what a real man is. This is what I would have done, and this is what I always do. - I always present the best sides about myself. - Im always a gentleman. - I always tease. - Im mysterious (Ignoring questions, or making her beg for the answer then telling her half of it) - Im always cocky funny. - Even if I'm not doing anything, I pretend that I'm busy. (not in a cold way, in a flirty way) make sure you get back to her. - Never complain about something in life, you should bring positivity to every conversation. If she had a bad day, your goal is to make her forget about it before she is going to bed, make her smile, make her happy. You can inspire her, or make her laugh. Both works. All of these qualities above, is interesting stuff! And you have to figure out how you are going to combine these successfully. I couldnt answer what your next step is, only how to make her think about you everyday. But I hope this helps you a little bit. Stay positive! |
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