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Author:  JonB [ Tue Aug 13, 2013 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  she seems a bit cold after 1st date...
Hey guys, I'm a little uncertain after my 1st date. I met this great girl online and we chatted for 2 weeks before meeting this last friday. We met for lunch and walked around this mall together for a while afterwards. We hugged each other goodbye and parted on good terms. All in all, it seemed a successful 1st date. She texted me a bit later asking if I had an okay time, I said I did and she said so too. The next saturday, I texted her in the late afternoon and we chatted for a little and signed off. Then I texted her again on sunday evening and we chatted for about 2 and a half hours. I asked her if she would like to go ice-skating this coming weekend. She declined because she said she has work and is visiting her dad. What bummed me out was the fact that she didn't try to arrange another time with me. That was the last time we spoke. Where do I go from here? Sorry, I am typing this via mobile... Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! :)
Author:  TheFury [ Tue Aug 13, 2013 5:40 pm ]
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Hey guys, I'm a little uncertain after my 1st date. I met this great girl online and we chatted for 2 weeks before meeting this last friday. We met for lunch and walked around this mall together for a while afterwards. We hugged each other goodbye and parted on good terms. All in all, it seemed a successful 1st date. She texted me a bit later asking if I had an okay time, I said I did and she said so too. The next saturday, I texted her in the late afternoon and we chatted for a little and signed off. Then I texted her again on sunday evening and we chatted for about 2 and a half hours. I asked her if she would like to go ice-skating this coming weekend. She declined because she said she has work and is visiting her dad. What bummed me out was the fact that she didn't try to arrange another time with me. That was the last time we spoke. Where do I go from here? Sorry, I am typing this via mobile... Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! :)
(1) Don't do day dates.
(2) Just because a girl says she had a good time or texted you after a date doesn't mean it was a good date
(3) Did you message her the next saturday as in, a week and a day later? or the next day?
Author:  Crypto [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 3:34 pm ]
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What Fury said...And Freaking Escalate! When you are with her/talk to her, think about and imagine having sex with her (ALWAYS see her sexually). If you think sexually, you will not screw up emotionally.


Peace...
Author:  GKS [ Thu Aug 15, 2013 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she seems a bit cold after 1st date...
Here are 3 rules that will get to laid

1. Do not do exciting dates - DO do fun date. Exciting dates such as hiking, ziplining, etc leave your date tired after the date, hence it's harder to f-close.
2. Always be close to the fuck location either it's your place, her place or your favorite bush in the park. It makes it appears spontaneous and unplanned, i'll be easier for her to go along with and lessen the LMR
3. Escalate - always aim for the f-close - no matter what she says or how much of a good girl she is. Once a girl has had sex with you, her level of investment and interest will increase significantly. Although, sometimes you do run into girls that just want one night stands.

Always use condoms and don't ever cum inside her on the first date (I had a panic attack about this yesterday, it was not fun)
Author:  JonB [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 10:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: she seems a bit cold after 1st date...
Thanks for the tips guys>>> anyway - she said its best if we're "just friends" because shes a born again christian and im not religious at all. Shes probably talking shit, but whatever... i will use the tips you guys have given me! Cheers :)
Author:  JonB [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 8:53 am ]
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Update - now she wants to hook me up with her ugly sister!!! The sister already added me on facebook and i dont know how to reject her without being a dick about it... lol
Author:  GamesSN [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 11:31 am ]
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Shit test?
Author:  JonB [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 11:36 am ]
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Shit test?
maybe... any ideas on what to do if this is the case?
Author:  GamesSN [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 11:44 am ]
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Depends... What would you rate her? HB9?

If she's a HB9 or close to it just plough through it. If not don't bother with her at all. Gotta learn that some women just aren't worth the hassle unless you want the experience of course.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 11:46 am ]
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Her- you should hook up with my sister.

You- No thanx

Shit test sorted.

Move on, find more chicks.
Author:  JonB [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 11:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: she seems a bit cold after 1st date...
Alright cheers dudes :)
Shes about a 7 id say... ill just ignore the message her ugly sister sent me on facebook and go infield this weekend.
Meeting a girl at a show later anyway.

Thanks for the advice, you guys rock!
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 11:54 am ]
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Only a 7?

I hate it when people say they only lay 9's & 10's (and rarely do)

I'm take my word back, get the sister laid! :p
Author:  JonB [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 12:05 pm ]
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Only a 7?

I hate it when people say they only lay 9's & 10's (and rarely do)

I'm take my word back, get the sister laid! :p
Hahaha, dude im still very new to this whole game thing.
I will not shag anything below a 5 (unless im really drunk)
The ugly sister is about a 3
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 12:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she seems a bit cold after 1st date...
Thought you said she was a 7

Nevermind.

HB5 and below is a good way to set the bar :)
Author:  JonB [ Fri Aug 23, 2013 12:14 pm ]
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Thought you said she was a 7

Nevermind.

HB5 and below is a good way to set the bar :)
Yea the sister i liked is a 7... i thought you were saying i should do the 3!! Haha
Nah - im just going to leave the whole thing man. Its too complicated now...
Easier to just move on to others...
Cheers :)
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