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Author:  Onoma [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 8:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this going anywhere?
Me: Wow, you must be pretty brave to use that picture... - 7:21

Her: Unlike real life, i don't have to talk to these a$$holes, if I don't want to. - 7:30pm

Her: Then when I meet them I don't shave my armpits and legs, talk endlessly about myself, and get a free meal (sometimes). - 7:32pm

Me: Haha... was just trying to see if you had a sense of humor. Clearly you do, although it's a bit vindictive. ;) Maybe you can still talk me into getting you a drink... - 7:37pm

Her: No tomo alcohol - Jun 20, 2013 – 8:11pm

Me: That's too bad... everyone knows you can't trust a person who doesn't drink. - 8:38pm

Her: I gotta have all my faculties to deal with these a$$holes out there. - 10:36pm

Her: ...and I don't see anything vindictive about not shaving, talking and eating. (Next Day) 3:10pm

At first I thought she was just messing with me for fun, but wasn't entirely sure. Given the second follow up after I delayed though I wonder if I misinterpreted her tone...

EDIT: I can't even think of a response to move it towards meeting, without sounding desperate... hmm...
Author:  Onoma [ Sun Jun 23, 2013 8:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this going anywhere?
So guessing by the lack of response I'm not the only one who's confused. Gave up on her anyway, felt like it was going nowhere and she was actually starting to annoy me.

Rest of conversation:

Me: It was the "endlessly" part I was referring to. I generally want my torture to end at some point... :P

Her: Listening to other people talk is torturous.
Her: Yeah...
Author:  Jambi [ Sun Jun 23, 2013 12:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this going anywhere?
Well she is replying and there is interest she''s just not an easy person to talk to and quite quirky. I'd mention that she's quirky in a sort of 'you're so adorable' tone. Also this is just chit chat skimming the surface small talk. You'll want to try and get to know more about her otherwise it's going nowhere. She's actually telling you she wants you to get her to talk about herself since she said
Quote:
Listening to other people talk is torturous.
. She's self absorbed so indulge her.

You can easily ask her questions to keep the conversations moving forward.

Sounds liek you have alot of stories. I have to hear this, the most cringe-worthy date you went on where he/she just bored you to death?
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Jun 24, 2013 2:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this going anywhere?
Just ask her. What's the problem. No transition, no nothing. A bunch of conversation isn't improving your chances here. Should have just said: "I'll be the judge of that.. meet me for a drink your name yournumber"
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