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Author:  superunknown88 [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Messages sooo slow on facebook.
Been messaging this HB on facebook...well trying! We had a good conversation going...then it petered off. So I sent her a message...no reply even though she read it. I was asking her a general negging Nursing question (she's a nurse). The conversation is one sided, she doesn't ask anything about me which is unsual because she added me and seemed to show interest in her first few messages)

Then I message her a week later very casually about that message...she acts that she's never seen it even though it's been read. I've shot myself in the foot by messaging her that. She generally takes ages in replying or in a way...needs pursuading.

Is there a way I can reframe the situation and make her WANT to message me? I don't even know what to say now.


Her lack of replies are annoying me. This is the convo layout really:

Her: blah blah
Me:blah blah
Her: blah blah
Me: Asks question...tease her slightly...take the micky out of her cap ( we have the same cap!)
Her: no reply


2 weeks later..

Me:blah blah
Her: blah blah
Me: Asks question..,talks about Nursing
Her: no reply


It's incredibly frustrating!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 8:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
Wait, let me get this straight... You are wasting your time trying to pull some RANDOM girl who randomly added you on Facebook because you think that she is interested in you? She is interested in the attention bro. Get the fuck out of your house and talk to girls. Gaming girls, especially random ones, regardless of who added who, is CREEPY AS FUCK! Girls do NOT like creepy.
Author:  superunknown88 [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
Well not so random. She lives in the area and we have mutual friends. I actually messaged her on POF, then she added me after a few months, I forgot I had messaged her then.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 9:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
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Well not so random. She lives in the area and we have mutual friends. I actually messaged her on POF, then she added me after a few months, I forgot I had messaged her then.

Well, here is this girls image of you...


A guy who does nothing with his life besides sit on dating websites and Facebook trying to get his dick wet.....

Hate to break it to you.

Start doing positive things with your life instead of sitting on Facebook (seeking validation from other people with their stupid likes and shit) and you will become a naturally positive person.

Right now, your lifestyle is negative. No girl wants to live a negative lifestyle. Develop a positive lifestyle that you are proud of and you will give off a positive vibe. In turn, you will feel positive about yourself and you will naturally attract women when you go out.
Author:  superunknown88 [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
I'm not sure how my life style is negative? I train at the gym every day, I'm a masters student and I go out every week.

I'm deaf so I find it difficult in talking to women in bar situations...as I can't hear them!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 9:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
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I train at the gym every day, I'm a masters student and I go out every week.
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That doesn't mean your lifestyle is positive and you are "proud" of what you are doing. What are you getting your masters for? So you can get a good "job" that will get you women effortlessly because you now make money? Girls don't give a fuck about how much you can lift or your degree or how much money you make. Do that shit for yourself. Do WHAT YOU WANT WITH YOUR LIFE and you will naturally feel more positive about yourself. This will give off the vibe that you are a positive person. Positive people with positive emotions attract people. Negative people with negative emotions repel people.
I'm deaf so I find it difficult in talking to women in bar situations...as I can't hear them!
This is an excuse... Go to lounges or move to a place in the bar/club where the music is quieter if your hearing is an issue. Or practice day/street game.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 9:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
If you have time to be sitting on Facebook trying to get girls to come out with you... They feel as if "this guy has nothing better to do with his time" meaning you are capable or more. Go out and do more things for yourself. Strive to be better.
Author:  flybeta [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 7:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
Keep girls you like or are interested off of your facebook!
Author:  superunknown88 [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 10:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
Look, this section is for online sarging and I asked for any helpful advice. I have a serious disability, so I cannot sarge as well as I should be!

I merely just wanted advice in regards to this issue...not just to tell me to get out which I already do. I make use of both mediums...outside and online.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 10:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
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Look, this section is for online sarging and I asked for any helpful advice. I have a serious disability, so I cannot sarge as well as I should be!

I merely just wanted advice in regards to this issue...not just to tell me to get out which I already do. I make use of both mediums...outside and online.
I can tell that you don't get out enough. You know how? Because your example interaction that you had posted from Facebook sucked. If you actually knew how to have an interesting conversation in real life with someone, your interactions that are not face to face would be much better.. I'm not trying to be a dick but its a fact of life man.


Look dude, you can use your so called "disability" to your advantage. I can actually hear pretty well but I use it as an excuse to isolate girls all the time... "I can't hear you. Let's go somewhere quieter." Pull her away... You see what I did there? because you can't hear, doesn't mean you should give up... It means you have to find a way to work around it and use it to your advantage.
Author:  superunknown88 [ Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
So called disability?

I wear hearing aids! I can only hear 5% from wearing them. In affect...I'm nearly stone deaf. So I find it very hard to engage with people outside.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Jun 18, 2013 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
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So called disability?

It's only disabling you because you are allowing it to disable you from getting what you want.. Again, find a way of using it to your advantage... the example I just gave you works perfectly.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jun 26, 2013 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Messages sooo slow on facebook.
I disagree w/Majikal re:online dating but i agree re:facebook. Facebook is a terrible way to meet women unless you are using the apps (tinder/etc.) Stick to okCupid or pay dating sites and your messaging should be to set up logistics of a meeting, not much more than that.
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