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Author:  fckyea [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 7:54 am ]
Post subject:  Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
Hi guys!
This is my first post on this forum but I have been checking it out for quite some time and I also read some articles and ebooks on pickup.
I was kinda hoping I can get some advice on how to ask a girl to come out with me and my friend on friday night just for fun. Were all still in highschool. We donthave any intentions to pick her up or whatever, just want to be friends. We usually go out mostly guys (about 4 of us), but this week only 2 of us will be going so it would be cool if she would come too (and mybe bring some friends) for company since we dont know any other girls from around here to go out with. I know her from facebook only and she's pretty hot. My friend doesnt know her in person either but he taltked to her on facebook and she seemed kinda nice to talk to, but heyve kinda hit a dead end. He never read any of the pua stuff though. I personaly think it will be pretty hard to get her to come with us since she doesnt know us i person.

I'm pretty new to this, but ivechecked out quite some articles so I kinda know the basic stuff so I atleast know what im doing.
I'm writing this on my phone so I'm sorry for some writing mistakes.
Anyway thanks for the advice :)
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 6:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
Just message her on Facebook and see if her and some of her friends want to meet up with you and your friend at some place. If she says no, just say "ok, talk to you later, I gotta get ready bye". Then don't message her again for a few days.

But you do want to find random girls at the place and get some pictures of yourself having fun with them. Build up that "high status male" mantra. Making you someone that girls are interested in. This will put you in her mind that girls want you and like you.

Girls want what other girls want or have. If she sees that you can have any girl at that place, it builds more interest in you, from her. She will reply and/or comment on those pictures.

If she messages you, and she will, asking if you had fun, tell her that you did, and next time her and a few of her friends should join you and your friends next time.
Author:  Profile Diva [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 11:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
Good advice from Leprechaun, but I'm confused. Are you interested in this girl or not? If you just want her to come out with you as a friend or to bulk up numbers in the group, you have to actually be friends with her and not employ PUA techniques. Take a second and think about what you really want from her, then take action. If you say you just want to hang out with her as friends, she will put you in that box in her mind and it will be hard to get out of it from there.
Author:  fckyea [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
I'm thinking more as friends. I go to an all guy school and dont really have any female friends the same age as me. Only some younger ones and would like to have some same age girls, especially to go out with since those younger girls cant go to 18+ clubs with us. Yea I know that once your friebdzoned its kinda hard to get out but its ok. Well I would like to use some openers to be / appear fun since she probably wouldnt want to meet up if i said that i would like to meet with her because i dont have any female friends my age.:)
Author:  Profile Diva [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 12:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
Sounds like you like this girl. Why not leave the whole game angle alone for now and just see what happens. If you like her and have stuff in common, then it will either go one way or another. Either you'll meet and just want to be friends, or you'll be attracted to each other and there will be something more. It will be hard to know until you spend some time with her. I know this sounds like radical advice on a PUA forum, but just treat her like a person that you want to get to know. The rest will take care of itself, and you might just gain a great friend who will hook you up with all her hot friends! You just never know...

BTW - I think that since you go to an all-boys school that it's really important to have girls who are your friends. You can learn a lot from them, and as I said, they have lots of friends to introduce you to.

Good Luck!
Author:  fckyea [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
So what would be a good way to start a conversation? :)
Author:  Profile Diva [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 2:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl(s) to go out with us on friday night
Well, I guess you could check out what she's into and ask her about it, but make it legit. No sense pretending you're into something you're not just to get her attention. If you really think you could be friends (or more) I'd hope you might have some things in common. I'd just be direct and send her a message and ask her a question about where she goes out or if she knows any good places to go etc. Maybe if there's a place you haven't been to ask her if she's been and what it's like. It takes the pressure of asking her out but gets her talking about going out, and can naturally lead to you two making plans.
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