PUA Forum :: Escalation

Hey guys I'm on pof I have a very solid profile and I have a great opener that gets results.
I've had long chats with girls but I don't have a clue how to escalate into flirting or talking dirty. I've had great talks with girls they just seem bored and stop talking!

As Gradi0 said. DO NOT ESCALATE IN CHAT. Messaging is for LOGISTICS. I.e. get the number to set up a date. PERIOD. I have posted this about 100000x in these forums yet the same questions keep popping up. Maybe I will post this as its own thread and mods can make it a sticky.

You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point where both of you are bored,

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You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point where both of you are bored,

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I don’t think there should be an absolute no-no to escalation in chat.
Sure, you don’t want to keep sexting for weeks in a chat and make no plans to meet.
But, cum grano salis, escalating before the meet up can keep the tension alive even if you need to delay the actual date because of bad logistics (I have had this happen before, keeping the texting highly flirtatious was helpful in a quick close when the date actually came); and anyway sets you up as a sexual person in her mind (provided that you then can promptly deliver IRL). It also seems to screen for more sexual women, to an extent.

DO escalate in chat if you are good at it, but DO MORE than escalate in chat.

I have to agree. EVERY time I've got a lady to either start getting sexual or sending titty pics over text, I've gotten laid on the first date.

Above are text excerpts with a lady I dated from beginning of summer to about two weeks ago. Met her online on a Saturday. Started texting during the week. Went on first date and banged the following Sunday. Had her seduced by Monday. After one date, by escalating through texting.

The idea for the rooster pic, I got from this forum. We were not "Sexting". Since uploading the pic, the conversation got more and more sexual, till we were talking about our favorite things in bed... favorite positions, etc...

The key is know when to escalate over text.

Author:	bmw2312 [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 5:25 am ]
Post subject:	Escalation
Hey guys I'm on pof I have a very solid profile and I have a great opener that gets results. I've had long chats with girls but I don't have a clue how to escalate into flirting or talking dirty. I've had great talks with girls they just seem bored and stop talking!

Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 6:23 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: Hey guys I'm on pof I have a very solid profile and I have a great opener that gets results. I've had long chats with girls but I don't have a clue how to escalate into flirting or talking dirty. I've had great talks with girls they just seem bored and stop talking! you: can you bake cookies? hb: (will almost always respond with yes) you: how about in heels? nothing kinky, i just keep the cooking oil on a high shelf. i use that a lot. i usually wait to get flirty till im texting and have built enough comfort. sometimes wpmen will escalate for you.

Author:	Gradi0 [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 3:07 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point where both of you are bored, you're not advancing quickly enough. It's okay to talk a little bit, but you need to get her on the phone and demonstrate you're a real person that wants to take her out. Worry about getting her number first and then setup the date. Then you can flirt with her IRL.

Author:	TheFury [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 1:05 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
As Gradi0 said. DO NOT ESCALATE IN CHAT. Messaging is for LOGISTICS. I.e. get the number to set up a date. PERIOD. I have posted this about 100000x in these forums yet the same questions keep popping up. Maybe I will post this as its own thread and mods can make it a sticky.

Author:	TheSeagull [ Wed Sep 04, 2013 11:56 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: As Gradi0 said. DO NOT ESCALATE IN CHAT. Messaging is for LOGISTICS. I.e. get the number to set up a date. PERIOD. I have posted this about 100000x in these forums yet the same questions keep popping up. Maybe I will post this as its own thread and mods can make it a sticky. I don’t think there should be an absolute no-no to escalation in chat. Sure, you don’t want to keep sexting for weeks in a chat and make no plans to meet. But, cum grano salis, escalating before the meet up can keep the tension alive even if you need to delay the actual date because of bad logistics (I have had this happen before, keeping the texting highly flirtatious was helpful in a quick close when the date actually came); and anyway sets you up as a sexual person in her mind (provided that you then can promptly deliver IRL). It also seems to screen for more sexual women, to an extent. DO escalate in chat if you are good at it, but DO MORE than escalate in chat. Just my two cents.

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Author:	detox75 [ Wed Sep 04, 2013 11:58 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point where both of you are bored, that except 1 small chance: You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point where you lower your value

Author:	detox75 [ Wed Sep 04, 2013 11:59 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: Quote: You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point where both of you are bored, that except 1 small change: You need to get the girl offline quicker. If you keep on just chatting away to the point in which she thinks you have low value

Author:	TheFury [ Thu Sep 05, 2013 12:57 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: Quote: As Gradi0 said. DO NOT ESCALATE IN CHAT. Messaging is for LOGISTICS. I.e. get the number to set up a date. PERIOD. I have posted this about 100000x in these forums yet the same questions keep popping up. Maybe I will post this as its own thread and mods can make it a sticky. I don’t think there should be an absolute no-no to escalation in chat. Sure, you don’t want to keep sexting for weeks in a chat and make no plans to meet. But, cum grano salis, escalating before the meet up can keep the tension alive even if you need to delay the actual date because of bad logistics (I have had this happen before, keeping the texting highly flirtatious was helpful in a quick close when the date actually came); and anyway sets you up as a sexual person in her mind (provided that you then can promptly deliver IRL). It also seems to screen for more sexual women, to an extent. DO escalate in chat if you are good at it, but DO MORE than escalate in chat. Just my two cents. Pretty much nothing is 100% when it comes to pick up, but in general from what I see on the boards, I stand by my advice to not escalate and just get things offline as soon as possible. I've done a lot of back and forth with some success also; however, it was usually after a plan to meet was established (maybe not an exact date but a "Let's meet up".."ok sure.." definitely happened) So, yes, on that scenario I agree with you, it can work fine. However, as a general guide for 90% of the texts and chats i see here... better to just ask for a meeting.

Author:	dlightmen [ Sat Oct 26, 2013 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: Quote: As Gradi0 said. DO NOT ESCALATE IN CHAT. Messaging is for LOGISTICS. I.e. get the number to set up a date. PERIOD. I have posted this about 100000x in these forums yet the same questions keep popping up. Maybe I will post this as its own thread and mods can make it a sticky. I don’t think there should be an absolute no-no to escalation in chat. Sure, you don’t want to keep sexting for weeks in a chat and make no plans to meet. But, cum grano salis, escalating before the meet up can keep the tension alive even if you need to delay the actual date because of bad logistics (I have had this happen before, keeping the texting highly flirtatious was helpful in a quick close when the date actually came); and anyway sets you up as a sexual person in her mind (provided that you then can promptly deliver IRL). It also seems to screen for more sexual women, to an extent. DO escalate in chat if you are good at it, but DO MORE than escalate in chat. Just my two cents. I have to agree. EVERY time I've got a lady to either start getting sexual or sending titty pics over text, I've gotten laid on the first date. Above are text excerpts with a lady I dated from beginning of summer to about two weeks ago. Met her online on a Saturday. Started texting during the week. Went on first date and banged the following Sunday. Had her seduced by Monday. After one date, by escalating through texting. The idea for the rooster pic, I got from this forum. We were not "Sexting". Since uploading the pic, the conversation got more and more sexual, till we were talking about our favorite things in bed... favorite positions, etc... The key is know when to escalate over text.

Author:	SuperTrooper [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
On, escalation... It depends on the girl. If you've met her irl, it's much easier, if you haven't you run a HUGE risk of coming off as a creeper. So just bear that in mind. It's very easy to misinterpret someone online, especially if you've never met them before.

Author:	detox75 [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 7:08 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
hey dlightmen, good to see you again on the forums, it looks like your game is getting a lot better. The best part about these texts is when you misdirect, defer, and demur her investment statements, thats extremely effective. Never give her a straight answer. As far as escalation goes,it has to be 2 steps forward and one step back. You never give away the farm or escalate enough to make them know they have you and lose the fun and challenge of the chase. But comfortably introducing the sexual frame with humor is a great way to prep the f-clsoe for the date. Again push pull.

Author:	Crypto [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Quote: Quote: Quote: As Gradi0 said. DO NOT ESCALATE IN CHAT. Messaging is for LOGISTICS. I.e. get the number to set up a date. PERIOD. I have posted this about 100000x in these forums yet the same questions keep popping up. Maybe I will post this as its own thread and mods can make it a sticky. I don’t think there should be an absolute no-no to escalation in chat. Sure, you don’t want to keep sexting for weeks in a chat and make no plans to meet. But, cum grano salis, escalating before the meet up can keep the tension alive even if you need to delay the actual date because of bad logistics (I have had this happen before, keeping the texting highly flirtatious was helpful in a quick close when the date actually came); and anyway sets you up as a sexual person in her mind (provided that you then can promptly deliver IRL). It also seems to screen for more sexual women, to an extent. DO escalate in chat if you are good at it, but DO MORE than escalate in chat. I have to agree. EVERY time I've got a lady to either start getting sexual or sending titty pics over text, I've gotten laid on the first date. Above are text excerpts with a lady I dated from beginning of summer to about two weeks ago. Met her online on a Saturday. Started texting during the week. Went on first date and banged the following Sunday. Had her seduced by Monday. After one date, by escalating through texting. The idea for the rooster pic, I got from this forum. We were not "Sexting". Since uploading the pic, the conversation got more and more sexual, till we were talking about our favorite things in bed... favorite positions, etc... The key is know when to escalate over text. I agree, if you get them hot and bothered on chat you can get the easy lay!

Author:	TheFury [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 6:34 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
You can also get an easy lay if you get them to come over and sleep with you .. so what?? The logic here is flawed because your condition for easy lay is an escalation that doesn't occur with any sort of regularity (woman engages in very explicit sexting etc. before meeting) Get a real life meeting, it's easy enough that way. You can shoot for sexting, and I agree, it works, when you can get them to do it.

Author:	bodybyvi [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
Really awesome. but in the long time chat, give some rest sometimes or you can checking her out too. definitely you should be always be aware that your weight must be in the high position for sure.

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Author:	Crypto [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 7:54 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Escalation
I think you're missing the point Fury. Your view of the topic does not fall in line with the view of the OP so you can't or are unwilling to see the opportunity. But I digress, and that's the beauty of this game. Peace...