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Author:  dizzybeat [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 7:36 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I respond to this.... [2nd message]
I sent an opener commenting on her creativity and got this response... any advice on where to take this? should I ignore her comment about being taken out to dinner?
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Yes actually. Finished building the chicken coop we've been working on. It's something we (my roomate and I) can be proud of. The chicks seem to like it, too.
I also biked the Rail Trail and got taken out to dinner twice! (That last one is exciting because it almost never happens.) :)
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this.... [2nd message]
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I sent an opener commenting on her creativity and got this response... any advice on where to take this? should I ignore her comment about being taken out to dinner?
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Yes actually. Finished building the chicken coop we've been working on. It's something we (my roomate and I) can be proud of. The chicks seem to like it, too.
I also biked the Rail Trail and got taken out to dinner twice! (That last one is exciting because it almost never happens.) :)
I assume you are opposed to take this girl out to dinner? Why? Financial issues? Why not respond something like:

"Cool blah blah blah... Want to add drinks to that dinner? Let's get together sometime"
Author:  dizzybeat [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:26 pm ]
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no, not at all! I would take her out to dinner... I just figured it was best to ignore the fact another dude just took her out (assuming it was a guy)... should I ask about it?

thanks for the help
Author:  dizzybeat [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this.... [2nd message]
I was thinking of saying something like:

"I'm totes jealous you got taken out for dinner... I can't remember the last time a guy paid for my meal"
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:31 pm ]
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I was thinking of saying something like:

"I'm totes jealous you got taken out for dinner... I can't remember the last time a guy paid for my meal"
maybe. never tried something like that. Give it a shot who knows.
Author:  Muzz [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 5:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this.... [2nd message]
Say how you love being taken out to dinner too and you'll be nice enough to let her take you out. She'll respond with something along the lines of how you should take her out. Call her a copy cat and tell her she can't steal your idea.
Author:  Betamax [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 5:53 am ]
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How about none of the above? It's the second message. Anyone who asks for a date on the second message is pretty much dead.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 1:19 pm ]
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How about none of the above? It's the second message. Anyone who asks for a date on the second message is pretty much dead.
You learn this from majikal? Disagree. 2nd message is fine, especially when there is an opening, and by the 3rd or 4th is pretty much a necessity.
Author:  Betamax [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 3:36 pm ]
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How about none of the above? It's the second message. Anyone who asks for a date on the second message is pretty much dead.
You learn this from majikal? Disagree. 2nd message is fine, especially when there is an opening, and by the 3rd or 4th is pretty much a necessity.
Wow.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 5:45 pm ]
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How about none of the above? It's the second message. Anyone who asks for a date on the second message is pretty much dead.
You learn this from majikal? Disagree. 2nd message is fine, especially when there is an opening, and by the 3rd or 4th is pretty much a necessity.
Wow.
Learn, instead of ride majikals nuts all day long.
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