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Author:  dizzybeat [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 6:45 pm ]
Post subject:  help with first message on okcupid...

a random girl rated me highly on OKC, but the only information in her profile is that she is Asian and working on a graduate degree in math...

I want to poke fun of the fact that she's Asian and good at math, but I'm not sure if the sarcasm will translate well for a first message... how does this sound:
Quote:
Hey… how's everything going? So, from your profile I gauge that you’re Asian and you’re good at math (please read that last sentence with a hint of playful sarcasm). What do you like to do for fun?

advice?

Author:  TheFury [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with first message on okcupid...

Quote:
a random girl rated me highly on OKC, but the only information in her profile is that she is Asian and working on a graduate degree in math...

I want to poke fun of the fact that she's Asian and good at math, but I'm not sure if the sarcasm will translate well for a first message... how does this sound:
Quote:
Hey… how's everything going? So, from your profile I gauge that you’re Asian and you’re good at math (please read that last sentence with a hint of playful sarcasm). What do you like to do for fun?

advice?
That's pretty awful. You make joke that isn't really funny and then you immediately apologize about it. I would go with this, it is my go to, and almost never fails: "Hey there, I saw you rated me highly.. you have good taste ;) How was your week?"

Author:  dizzybeat [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with first message on okcupid...

you're right, thanks... I'm gonna go with yours...

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