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| Author: | Ethreax [ Mon Apr 15, 2013 3:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Failed appointments |
Hi, this is my issue: I created an account on a FB-alike website, and started to add random people in my area. Two accepted, I wrote them the reason I had added them: "I like to meet new people". With one of these girls we started to talk and I could see from her questions later in the chat's that she was testing me (just to know me better). I once asked what she would be doing in the weekend, she told she had to go somewhere for work. Some weeks later I told her I would like to meet up with her, she agreed, so we made an appointment for Saturday evening at 19:00. I drived to the place, (I was a bit late), I called her and the phone was not reachable. After 10 minutes waiting I gave up, I was totally pissed off (she didn't answer my SMSs where I told her I would be late) and she didn't answer my call. So I wrote her a message like: "Ok, happy now? Nice game I don't now what you gained. Goodbye" but I didn't delete her. She answered me back she told me she was waiting there bla bla, However in the end she told me she accidentally gave me her old number. I didn't believe her so I told her to let my phone ring once so I could get here number. So She did. We agreed we would met up 2weeks later nomatter what. During the week before the Friday we had to meet she was talkinga bout her job and so that her free days changed and so on. So we agreed she would let me know on thurday. Thursday she told me Friday we could not meet because she had to work. I couldn't meet Saturday because I had an appointment. But I told her if Sunday was ok. She told me she had to go somewhere but she would let me know on Friday. She didn't write me since then. Any advices appreciated. Should I act annoyed (which I am)? Or do like if I don't care? Should I mention her that I asked her already 3 times? |
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| Author: | andermax [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 3:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Failed appointments |
You need to chill out when it comes to girls. From what I am reading she made a genuine mistake, if she didn't she would not bother messaging with you again. If you can recover this you need to apologize for being so serious (my gran/dog/shark died whatever) and be really relaxed. Also, don't expect a girl you have met on the internet to give up a Saturday/Friday night easily. Leave it for a while and then tell her 'I have plans this weekend doing something really cool, but I am free on Tuesday for a couple of hours if you want to catch up, does that sound good, yes?' But to be honest, it is probably best if you leave it for a week or 2 and just dont message her or make contact until she does. If she doesn't send her the time old classic 'I saw your twin today' and get her talking again. Good luck |
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| Author: | Muzz [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 8:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Failed appointments |
Move on dude, girl stood you up. Don't lower yourself and allow that. Have more respect for yourself. |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 9:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Failed appointments |
I agree with Muzz. The reason why being aloof works is because if you really were as high value as you described, the fact that you didn't end up meeting her wouldn't phase you a bit. Why would it? You don't even know her. She's nothing to you but some broad you talk to on the internet. Your original text about "don't know what you gained" was not all bad. However, when you post things like you agree to meet up "no matter what" that just seems really AFC to me. No matter what? Really? It's impossible that YOU might have something come up and YOU might have to cancel on HER? If you struggle with this concept, my advice is to stop planning so far ahead. Build rapport and make your invites more spontaneous. Whatever your invites are, make them fun. Something she WANTS to do, if not with you, with someone else. It takes a lot of feeling for a person to do something they don't get excited about with someone else. |
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| Author: | Ethreax [ Thu May 09, 2013 9:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Failed appointments |
Thanx for your advices dudes, well now it's some weeks later, and we still didn't meet, however I am no pushing anymore, and to be honest with you guys, not even much interested in her anymore. I am not talking with her since some days now, waiting to see what she does..In the meanwhile I move to the next one 
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