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Author:  shadyx [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 9:52 am ]
Post subject:  Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend request ?
So I have met this girl in class and I talked to her a few times before but it was always in group conversations (I was focusing on her most of the time tho, she did too).She always smiled when talking to me and always tried to keep the conversation going.I wanted to make a real move on her and ask her out (or at least ask her for her number) but it seemed like an impossible task as she is always surrounded by her friends which increases my chances of failure.So I just added her on fb(we got mutual friends btw), 5 days later and my request is still pending.She did log in as she changed her profile pic and cover.We didn't talk since then(not because I'm trying to ignore her or anything but we just didn't run into each other).
Author:  smushed [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 2:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
Maybe because she's not interested in you, yet.

ON the other hand, I've invited girls and then had to ask them why they didn't accept. They usually answer, "Oh, sorry I didn't see it". Like they get so many.

Anyway, we've got our games and they've got theirs.
Author:  shadyx [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
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Maybe because she's not interested in you, yet.

ON the other hand, I've invited girls and then had to ask them why they didn't accept. They usually answer, "Oh, sorry I didn't see it". Like they get so many.

Anyway, we've got our games and they've got theirs.
Funny thing is I sometimes add girls that I never even talked to yet and they accept my requests.And they are usually as hot as this girl or even hotter.
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
There's this girl I know from martial arts school, probably 5 years younger than me. Then I started adding some people from the gym to friends as it was discussed this was a good way to stay in touch about all the events we host up there and the trainings, fights, etc. Even her cousin accepted me, but not this girl. I solved the problem by starting to hit her harder. Not on her.
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 11:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
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Maybe because she's not interested in you, yet.

ON the other hand, I've invited girls and then had to ask them why they didn't accept. They usually answer, "Oh, sorry I didn't see it". Like they get so many.

Anyway, we've got our games and they've got theirs.
Funny thing is I sometimes add girls that I never even talked to yet and they accept my requests.And they are usually as hot as this girl or even hotter.
You MAY have come off as a creep. Or maybe she's afraid YOU will creep on her. Just treat it as a shit test. Don't bother bringing it up.
Author:  shadyx [ Thu Apr 11, 2013 11:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
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Maybe because she's not interested in you, yet.

ON the other hand, I've invited girls and then had to ask them why they didn't accept. They usually answer, "Oh, sorry I didn't see it". Like they get so many.

Anyway, we've got our games and they've got theirs.
Funny thing is I sometimes add girls that I never even talked to yet and they accept my requests.And they are usually as hot as this girl or even hotter.
You MAY have come off as a creep. Or maybe she's afraid YOU will creep on her. Just treat it as a shit test. Don't bother bringing it up.
Fine,I will do.Thanks for the tip ;)
Author:  Jambi [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 12:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
It's either A) she not into you or B) she's listening to her friends/ crappy magazines that she reads that tell her to make you sweat a little.
Author:  shadyx [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 9:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
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It's either A) she not into you or B) she's listening to her friends/ crappy magazines that she reads that tell her to make you sweat a little.
Even if she isn't interested in me,why wouldn't she accept it ? I mean it's a friend request not a marriage proposal.Maybe she is sure that I like her.We used to glance at each other a lot in class before we talk for the 1st time.Not like I stared at her the whole time,just quick glances.She used to stare sometimes tho lol.
Author:  Mr. Marville [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 1:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
Indeed, it's a friend request not a marriage proposal, so no need to shed tears if she doesn't accept it.

I read all these replies and think my solution up there is the best one.
Author:  Crypto [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 2:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
Because she can! She is in the power position as soon as you send the friend request. Better way to go about it would have been to get her to send you a friend request by being a bad ass mofo IRL.


Peace...
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
Don't game on Facebook bro, game in person.

If you have to game online, use POF or OKCupid etc. it keeps all your girls separate and won't fuck with your social life
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why would a girl that I know not accept my friend reques
Why are you adding girls you don't know on facebook? What do you hope to accomplish by adding strange girls? It says "I can't meet girls in person and I am desperate."

If a girl says she didn't see the request, that's her way of saying "Oh shit you caught me. I didn't accept you," without any real repercussion. Don't add people on facebook until they're actually involved in your personal life. Otherwise, be like the girl. Let them add you.

Don't focus on the one girl. That's not what we're about. In your head you have this conception that the girl deserves to be taken out on a date with you just by being a prize. You need to learn how to attract many women in order to attract one.

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