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| Author: | jed123 [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 12:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl from party adds me on Facebook, what should I do? |
Hey guys I am new to this sort of thing, never had a girl friend or go to parties. But anyway, I went to a party met a girl from a different girl talked a small but I acted 'jokey' then next day she adds me on Facebook as well as other people in my school (I could tell went under recently added friends on her profile). So what should I do? I am really bad at talking to girls and I was really bad at talking to her at the party I got introduced to her from one of my friends bit we only talked for like a minute. All i want is to have a conversation with her that isn't 'awkward'. It can't be that hard! |
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| Author: | Disco90 [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 12:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl from party adds me on Facebook, what should I do? |
How many friends does she have? Dont mean to piss on your parade but a lot of girls add everyone theyve ever met on fb, so it doesn't definatley mean she's into you. That of course doesn't mean you can't get her, but your approach has to be based on the situation you're in with her. |
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| Author: | jed123 [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 12:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl from party adds me on Facebook, what should I do? |
Quote: How many friends does she have? Dont mean to piss on your parade but a lot of girls add everyone theyve ever met on fb, so it doesn't definatley mean she's into you. That of course doesn't mean you can't get her, but your approach has to be based on the situation you're in with her.
I just wanted to start a conversation I guess she has like 10 mutual friends.
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| Author: | Disco90 [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 12:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl from party adds me on Facebook, what should I do? |
Then just do it is my advice. Start with something like, 'we met at that party and it was nice to talk to you, but I would've liked to do more of it'. Then say whatever it is you wanna say. If its just a conversation your wanting then you have nothing to worry about, remember she should as interesting to talk to as you, so if you're trying to be nice and talktitve and she isn't, then it's her that's being awkward not you. |
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| Author: | solrac [ Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl from party adds me on Facebook, what should I do? |
What I learned from experience and being told is that we should never use online source's or texting for just asking what's going on unless it is urgent. These things I learned are to be used for meeting up in real life because when only texting you are missing important elements (body language, kino escalated opportunity etc.) but I am being somewhat hypocritical because I still do I'm just trying to help. What I think you should do though is if you have an event coming up or something similar you should invite her out to it. Say something like Example: "Hey, I remember you from that last party. There's another one soon at my friend Nicolas Cage's house you want to go with me? It's Saturday at 11." Over exaggerated example of what she would say back: (Only including because I feel like it) "OMH YES IV'E BEEN WAITING TO GO TO THAT PARTY THAT GUY STOLE THE DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE. Should I find my own ride?" So yeah. Lmao. |
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