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Author:  solrac [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  This girl Is ripping my confidence to shreads..
I had a pretty solid confidence. The mind set where I thought I could get any girl I wanted if I tried. But lately things have been different. The girls I really like are the ones that ignore me now. This girl used to think I was cute & liked me. But now things are just different I guess I started out PUA and ended up AFC. Sadly as that sounds. It's killing me. I talked to her & she didn't reply to my text so I left it alone today.. then I saw a picture of her on IG and made an innocent comment about the how it was 4 way symmetrical by mentioning something about her elbows. I know I'm pretty fucking stupid weirdo faggot. But later I found she didn't respond to it but instead deleted the comment. So I finally said forget it. I took her off my IG deleted our text and going to delete her from my phone. I really liked her alot been chasing her for about a year now. I am a persistent guy. Normally I don't quit until I get what I want but whatever. Idk what to do my depression feels through the roof right now. :? Just kind of sucks that I wasted my time chasing her just to end up with this/ like this etc. Any advice appreciated.
Author:  meetjoeblack [ Sat Mar 30, 2013 1:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: This girl Is ripping my confidence to shreads..
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I had a pretty solid confidence. The mind set where I thought I could get any girl I wanted if I tried. But lately things have been different. The girls I really like are the ones that ignore me now. This girl used to think I was cute & liked me. But now things are just different I guess I started out PUA and ended up AFC. Sadly as that sounds. It's killing me. I talked to her & she didn't reply to my text so I left it alone today.. then I saw a picture of her on IG and made an innocent comment about the how it was 4 way symmetrical by mentioning something about her elbows. I know I'm pretty fucking stupid weirdo faggot. But later I found she didn't respond to it but instead deleted the comment. So I finally said forget it. I took her off my IG deleted our text and going to delete her from my phone. I really liked her alot been chasing her for about a year now. I am a persistent guy. Normally I don't quit until I get what I want but whatever. Idk what to do my depression feels through the roof right now. :? Just kind of sucks that I wasted my time chasing her just to end up with this/ like this etc. Any advice appreciated.
Chasing for a year? That is the saddest thing I ever heard. Why would any woman respect you let a lone see you? You have no self respect. Take a hint. Most of these tactics in pickup end up fucking you up unless you have a rock solid core. I recommend rsdnation, listening to the regulart vblogs, principles like freedom from outcome, intent, abundance, and others. Tactics like hard push pull might have worked but, the window of opportunity passed. Move on.
Author:  solrac [ Sun Mar 31, 2013 12:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: This girl Is ripping my confidence to shreads..
Thanks for the reply, and being real with me. I know that It is pretty sad I just thought out of sheer willpower and persistence eventually I would have got her but lesson learned. I am moving on now though. I need more self respect of myself.
Author:  cobb912 [ Tue Apr 02, 2013 2:29 am ]
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Thanks for the reply, and being real with me. I know that It is pretty sad I just thought out of sheer willpower and persistence eventually I would have got her but lesson learned. I am moving on now though. I need more self respect of myself.

Persistence only wins over women who WANT to be won over. After a year? Yeah, she's gotten use to you hanging around and you lost the shot. Freeze her out--cold. Let her wonder why she's stopped being attractive to you, and you might get the chance to reset. Just get past the oneitis. No woman wants a clingy man--they want the man everyone else wants.

If not, screw her. She'll be dying when your game improves and she doesn't have a shot with you anymore.
Author:  solrac [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: This girl Is ripping my confidence to shreads..
Yep thanks & yesterday I was walking back from the restroom at lunch & most of her friends next to her and girls in front of her saidt hey to me while I was walking back and I saw her with her hand on her face just watching me as they did. Do you think this increased my value in her eyes?
Author:  TheRedBaron [ Thu Apr 04, 2013 1:21 am ]
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Yep thanks & yesterday I was walking back from the restroom at lunch & most of her friends next to her and girls in front of her saidt hey to me while I was walking back and I saw her with her hand on her face just watching me as they did. Do you think this increased my value in her eyes?
Unclear as to what happened here.... but the gist of it sounds like you caught her eyeballing you.

Not that it's important, but this happened with me when I was hanging around my ex once or twice... considering the context, you're obviously on her mind. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if she's secretly hoping to get a reaction out of you. Because once you react, that shows her that you're still invest/hurting more than she is, and that feels great on the ego. So much so that a lot of people go out of their ways to try and feed it in such a way (doing things to elicit a reaction.... these ppl usually get upset when they dont get the attention/reaction they want).

But dwelling on such things is pointless. And if you are actually on her mind, all that knowledge does is build up your ego (tho it might help in the short term). Best thing to do is cut her off, minimize your exposure to her, and treat her like she's an acquaintance with whom you have no emotional connection. This will help you get over it, and hey, maybe it'll even drive her a little bonkers in the process.
Author:  CripStop [ Sun Apr 07, 2013 1:32 am ]
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Do you think this increased my value in her eyes?
Focus on not caring what she thought. If you try to figure it out, it will just drive you nuts again and you will go back to oneitis.
Author:  solrac [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 12:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: This girl Is ripping my confidence to shreads..
Ok so I have been trying to get over her & at the same time trying to use some game against her. As of right now (bare with me getting over One Itis is kinda hard) I'm trying to freeze her out. We follow eachother on Instagram I'm thinking of posting pics of me hanging with my friends/playing guitar/skateboarding since it's what I do to give over the impression I'm living it up without her. But I have been talking to her bestfriend and we were all walking to lunch when a girl from her area came up and hugged me and in my peripheral vision I saw her looking at me as I looked at the girl that went to hug me, then her bestfriend walked up and talking to me along with her & stuff. Am I on the right track? but her bestfriend as a boyfriend now so I'm just gonna cut contact with her for a bit.
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