I searched but couldn't find anything on this.
Been tanking to this girl on POF, we're been having some good conversations for the last week or so and she has been responding well. Last night I put a date proposal forward but she said she said that date was "no good" and didn't propose an alternative time when she would be free.
HER: What a coincidence! I've been soooooo ill these last few days! You feeling better?
Name a day and time and I'll see what I can do! I'm popular you see lol x
ME: Aww no have you been confined to your bed like a potato? I'm over the worst now but have been sneezing my brains out all day haha, not ideal having a sneezing fit on the M4!
Ok little miss popular, pick you up Friday, 4:03pm, Link Centre rock climbing! However, if you have a phobia of heights then I guess a casual drink will do
xHER: I was literally confined to my bed for 3 days. The most boring 3 days of my life!!! Lol! Hmm, I can imagine that was definitely not ideal!
Friday is no good I'm afraid. Rock climbing, jeeeze haven't done that in years. A few drinks is definitely a safer option! Don't think you'd appreciate me moaning about how scared I am if heights the whole time!! Lol x
It seems like she is genuinely busy as the rest of the message is quite positive. I know it is usually a IOD when they don't suggest another time but this situation seems a little more difficult to read. I know a lot of girls really don't like taking the initiative when it comes to arranging dates and sometimes all it takes is for the guy to suggest another date.
Any suggestions on how to deal with this?