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Author:  se16 [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 1:12 am ]
Post subject:  OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
I've had an OKC profile for over a year now and have had some success. Since I'm off work and have more time to send messages I've set up a POF profile as well.

Can someone briefly outline the differences in how I should write my profile on POF, is it a good idea to just copy over what I wrote on OKC?
Should I be messaging girls differently?
Author:  GKS [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 3:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
Generally, I found OKC women require more work and better frame. The quality of women and level of education on OKC is higher. They tend to be more serious about making real connection with people and more careful about meeting strangers offline. So the idea is building enough comfort and rapport before number close.

POF demographic is a bit lower quality but higher quantity. Lot of single mom and low end HBs. But mainly, they're just there for one thing: sex or casual dating. From my experience, I slept with most the girls I met off POF within 1-3 dates. It's easier to number close and higher chance to f-close if they agree to meet. Just be playful and interesting with a decent inner game and you're set. And go for number within 3-4 replies to avoid wasting your time.
Author:  se16 [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 12:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
Ok, great. thanks for the advice.

How important is your tagline and first date description?
Author:  Mr.Jowee [ Sat Mar 23, 2013 1:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
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And go for number within 3-4 replies to avoid wasting your time.
I've seen people claim this before. Can you give a couple of examples where you go from opening to closing in four messages? Just copy and paste should do.
Author:  GKS [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
Not exactly within 3 replies but you get the idea. If you leave the conversation when the level of interest is high, it's easier to number close.

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Author:  TheRedBaron [ Mon Mar 25, 2013 2:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
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Not exactly within 3 replies but you get the idea. If you leave the conversation when the level of interest is high, it's easier to number close.

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This is good shit. Idk why but I've been hitting a streak lately where every single girl I meet off OKC and PoF are only interested in serious relationships or someone older than me (and they don't tell me this until I've spent the time, effort, and money to meet up with them). Guess I've been forgetting to screen them. Will give this kind of approach a shot.
Author:  Mr.Jowee [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
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Not exactly within 3 replies but you get the idea. If you leave the conversation when the level of interest is high, it's easier to number close.
Looks like a lot more than 3. How long was the conversation?
Author:  GKS [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 4:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
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Not exactly within 3 replies but you get the idea. If you leave the conversation when the level of interest is high, it's easier to number close.
Looks like a lot more than 3. How long was the conversation?
That was the whole conversation. I number closed on her 4th reply. Noted I said generally within 3-4 replies, but you gotta make your judgment according to different conversations. The idea is showing them your intention, you're on the site for a reason, let it be casual dating, ONS, or LDR, you want to convey to them you have no interest in being friends or email buddies, either they take it or leave it. Believe me, that will save you a lot of time with online dating.

This is the outline I use for most of my conversation:
- 1st message - Qualifying her
- 2nd message - Creating comfort - sharing experience, jokes, teasing, push and pull, etc...
- 3rd message - Sexual escalate - asking sexual questions, future projection, fun sexual cold reading games, etc.. If they play along and engage the topic, I know I'm game and leave the conversation for number close since their interest are high at this point.
- 4th message (optional) - More sexual banter/escalate
Author:  detox75 [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 4:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
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This is good shit. Idk why but I've been hitting a streak lately where every single girl I meet off OKC and PoF are only interested in serious relationships or someone older than me (and they don't tell me this until I've spent the time, effort, and money to meet up with them). Guess I've been forgetting to screen them. Will give this kind of approach a shot.
Likely because you are trying to sell yourself as a provider or stable safe guy so you attract girls looking for that.
Author:  se16 [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 9:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
so far i'm finding okc is much better for getting replies
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Apr 11, 2013 7:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OKC v POF - difference in profile and tactics
OKC in my town seems to have more and more woman who like to chat and waste your time. Its seems to attract scene chicks, EMO's, and girls with a chip on their shoulders more and more. Fortunately the woman on POF are still DTF.
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