I recently started talking to a HB9, who rejected me a about year ago, on Facebook and Im not sure how to ask her out.
I met her in a big party and there definetly was attraction between us but, as an miserable AFC back then, I didnt know how to deal with her so I ended up adding her on facebook.
I chatted a lot with her but, since I was a real wuss back then, I couldn't bring myself to ask her out until the attraction was gone (and even then I acted like a wuss: "could I see you someday or something?"). Amazingly, she agreed (!) but I screwed it by answering something like: "Yay!! Could I see you in two days??" (Pathetic and needy, I know
). She didn't respond to me after that at all, which left me embarassed and hurt. Luckily that event is one of the reasons how I found this society.
It's been a year since and Im a whole different man (rAFC still though
) inside and outside. Recently she has 'liked' a lot of my pics and I thought about gaming her bit for fun. Yesterday I chatted with her a bit and I thought about asking her out the next time I talk to her to void wasting my time again. So my questions are: Should I just ask her out like: "When are we gonna see the next time
?" etc. or something different since she has already rejected me once? And do I come off as needy or confident after asking her out so quickly? As confident I presume but just checking. Thanks to everyone who had the time and patience to read/answer me!