Haven't had too much practice doing so. Here's a conversation I'm currently having on match. Been trying J Smooth's direct approach.
Me: Really liked your profile. I wanted to talk to you and see what you are all about. Where did you meet bumblebee at?
Her: Fremont street in Vegas. That was fun! What do you wanna know? (then she leaves her name)
Me: Vegas is a lot of fun. I've been there a few times, I have a good friend who lives up there and gives helicopter tours of the strip, you ever taken one of those? I'm going back with some friends over spring break. Is Vegas your favorite place you ever visited? (then I leave my name)
Her: Nooooo i'm not good with heights! Vegas is cool but I've only been there twice.
(her default picture is her dressed as Wonder Woman)
Me: I can't believe wonder woman is afraid of heights!
That's gotta really suck flying around in the invisible airplane! Vegas wouldn't be my top favorite place to visit, I reaaaally love Santa Barbara that place is beautiful and tons of fun. Austin is another good choice as well. What do you usually do on your spare time?Her: When I have it, haha, I just like to relax and hang out with friends. never been to Santa Barbara or Austin. Been to Florida and Massachusetts as far as vacationing spots haha.
what's some good rapport building stuff?