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Author:  SkippyASW [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 12:41 pm ]
Post subject:  What the heck did i do wrong???
I translated the conversation from Romanian to English.

Me: Do you always carry your ferocious furry with you when going abroad or it pestered you enough and you gave in?
HB9: It's not my cat...i found her there
Me: Anyway, you seem enthusiastic walking down there or while wearing short skirts ;).
HB9: 1. I work in tourism, it's obvious I like travelling
2. Why the hell do you care what I wear? I'm not a muslim so ofcourse I wear short skirts!
You, the ugly and stupid ones envy us, the gorgeous women, because no one talks to you EVEEEERRR.
Why don't you talk to some ugly shit??? The man who can tell me what to wear hasn't been borned yet hahahahaaaa. My dress costs more than your fuckin cars assholes!!


WTF??? Did I do something wrong or she's just bitching around for no reason?
Author:  JakeLewis [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the heck did i do wrong???
Quote:
I translated the conversation from Romanian to English.

Me: Do you always carry your ferocious furry with you when going abroad or it pestered you enough and you gave in?
HB9: It's not my cat...i found her there
Me: Anyway, you seem enthusiastic walking down there or while wearing short skirts ;).
HB9: 1. I work in tourism, it's obvious I like travelling
2. Why the hell do you care what I wear? I'm not a muslim so ofcourse I wear short skirts!
You, the ugly and stupid ones envy us, the gorgeous women, because no one talks to you EVEEEERRR.
Why don't you talk to some ugly shit??? The man who can tell me what to wear hasn't been borned yet hahahahaaaa. My dress costs more than your fuckin cars assholes!!


WTF??? Did I do something wrong or she's just bitching around for no reason?
You focused on her looks too much, combined with the fact she knows she is beautiful she immediately assigned you lower value for focusing on her looks and using flirtatious language and emoticons.

Admittedly she is definitely someone who speaks "bitchily" and I wouldn't pursue her or any girl that thinks that way - the ones who think they're better than everyone else- one day her looks will fade and she will be left feeling like "the ugly stupid one". Write back to her saying whatever you like, be bitchy and cut that cord immediately. You didn't tell her what to wear you just said she was confident in those kinds of clothes so in essence she is the stupid one, and when she realises she won't keep a man with those kinds of values in her she will have to re-evaluate herself.

Don't let it get you down, learn from it, and use it to motivate you further.
I'd say step away from online game and get in the field.

Hope this helps.

Jake
Author:  SkippyASW [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the heck did i do wrong???
Quote:
You focused on her looks too much, combined with the fact she knows she is beautiful she immediately assigned you lower value for focusing on her looks and using flirtatious language and emoticons.

Admittedly she is definitely someone who speaks "bitchily" and I wouldn't pursue her or any girl that thinks that way - the ones who think they're better than everyone else- one day her looks will fade and she will be left feeling like "the ugly stupid one". Write back to her saying whatever you like, be bitchy and cut that cord immediately. You didn't tell her what to wear you just said she was confident in those kinds of clothes so in essence she is the stupid one, and when she realises she won't keep a man with those kinds of values in her she will have to re-evaluate herself.

Don't let it get you down, learn from it, and use it to motivate you further.
I'd say step away from online game and get in the field.

Hope this helps.

Jake

My "animal opener" has almost 90% response rate, and after another few messages, it's still over 50%.
But you're saying that my second text was the bad one, so what I should've texted instead?
Usually I continue with something about the way she's dressed or feeling at a specific moment when a picture was taken. If she has no text on her profile I wanna trigger an emotion concerning a good moment (about the picture) or notice something about her style and then continue from there.
And after that I start becoming interested in what she does for a linving, what she likes etc.
Isn't this the right way?
Author:  JakeLewis [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the heck did i do wrong???
I'm not questioning your 1st line, it was a good one, im just describing what went wrong.
The 2nd line was quite sexual, with beautiful women the general rule is to neg her a bit to make them slightly self conscious and lower the bitch shield. I'd had suggested talking about her tourism and travelling or her cat more since you switched pretty quick from being interested in her cat travelling with her to talking about how short her skirt was. Then once you'd built rapport then you could move onto more sexual stuff once.

But that's just my opinion. Hope this helps,

Jake
Author:  GKS [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 5:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the heck did i do wrong???
1. Neg barely works online.
2. Being too judgmental always backfires and make people defensive.
3. The whole vibe of the conversation isn't light and playful, it reeks of you trying to put her down and reassure yourself that you hold all power. Hence, she retaliated.

I have no idea how you portrait your personality through your profile, the frame you have on your profile and the frame you have during conversation might not be consistent. Or it could totally be that she's too insecure and bat shit crazy.
Author:  ilikenamitha [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the heck did i do wrong???
She's probably just a bitch. Most 9 and 10 women are lol...
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