Can someone please explain to me why I am continuously getting flaked on.
So I'm using this adult dating website, and the response rate is very high. I've actually been opened by some very good looking girls as well. But when I try to number close or arrange a meet up, they stop messaging temporarily and I always have to reframe and reopen. I don't understand why....Here is a very good example of an HB9 showing strong IOI's
Her (initiated the conversation): How about you find my deviil inside...
Me:I think you'll find that with me the bad girl within is more close to the surface than you think!
I will teach you a great many things, young grasshoppa.
As I will be your new Sensei.
Your journey will be begin here
What shall I call you?
Went cold So I reopened a couple of days later.
Me: I have a dirty game I'd like to play with you but it requires some imagination. Are you good at conversation games? I want to see how dirty your mind can get.
So how about a game?
Her: I want to have some naughty fun with you, baby.
Me: It sounds like you want to get straight to it. I'm totally cool with that too.
I wouldn't mind filling your free time, and probably a few other things, very soon.
I want to help you create some of the naughtiest fantasies you have.
Her: You have a very naughty mind, would love to chill with you and explore it.
Me: Sounds good to me, baby.
You should come have drinks with me this weekend.
GreenStreet Cafe or Lulu's are some if my prefered places. Or if you can think of a more private spot to explore each others dirty secrets I'm all ears.
Went cold, haven't heard back in 3 days.
This keeps happening. These girls show such strong IOI's but when I mention actually meeting up with them. They back off a little and show resistance.
Maybe I'm good at building strong sexual tension but not enough comfort or report.
Any suggestions, I can give you more examples. But its a shame because these girls are gorgeous.