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| Author: | RTRA [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Friends with Benefits! Experienced answers please. |
So I've been talking to this HB on one of these hookup/no strings attached adult websites. Things are going well so far. Now were at the point were she wants to confirm if I can "handle" the evening she would provide for me. I am confident that I can. However, I have never prearranged a no-strings attached/strictly physical dating scenario before and I was wondering, how much foreplay is required? I plan on having her come over to my place. We will get to know each other on my sofa. I'll probably light a few candles and pour a few glasses of wine. Probably put on one of the adult channels later on when she gets more comfortable. But should I offer to take her out first? Like drinks at a local lounge before I take her back to my place like a formal date? How much is expected in a friends with benefits type of relationship in terms of treating her to drinks and so forth? I've never been in this type of relationship before. Responses from those have been in these types of relationships please. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 8:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friends with Benefits! Experienced answers please. |
Meet her publicly for the first time and have a drink to see if there is any attraction (which like it or not is required). The next meeting is SEX and only SEX! Fuck her like a caveman and leave her wanting another go at it. Don't be a dick, but dont treat her like a GF either. Do you take your buddies out and buy them dinner and drinks? Buddies = Friends! This girl = friend + sex! If she is a FB then she is not a friend and is only for sex, nothing more (very little interaction outside of the sex) Don't get needy and never too eagar... |
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| Author: | ilikenamitha [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friends with Benefits! Experienced answers please. |
Lay out mutual agreements prior. But don't hang out, cuddle, kiss or anything that shows close affection. This merely turns it into a quasi-relationship. |
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