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| Author: | TonyRichards [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 6:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you guys approach a girl when she's in a group? |
Okay so you're at the mall and you see and pretty girl but she's sitting down with not 1, 2, but 3 or more of her friends. What do you do? And also, what if there is a guy or two in the group, but you're almost positive that neither one of them is her bf, and you want to give it a shot. Any thoughts? This is the hardest thing for me, any of you guys know what to do in these kinds of situations? |
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| Author: | GGplayer [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 6:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys approach a girl when she's in a group? |
It's pretty normal, you will almost never see 1-sets, there will almost always be multiple groups in the set, and having guys there is also not uncommon. in all female sets, the basic idea is to approach and build rapport with the entire group, which is generally done by demonstrating value (DHV) which can be done in a number of ways, many of which are talked about regularly on this forum. Then you want to focus on the primary obstacle of the group, which I usually call the alpha female of group. You know who she is by asking a question and seeing which one they all look at before someone responds. With guys, it definitely gets a bit more complicated, because you have to identify whether the guy(s) are orbiters (afc's who hang around the women for whatever reason but have no sexual interaction), alphas (strong frame), or someones bf. Then, you continue the DHV and gain the alphas approval. I'm not generally good with day game, but I think the general idea is to either go on an insta date (easily done at the mall, tell her you're trying to switch up your style and bring her shopping), or grab their number and gtfo. |
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| Author: | TheRedBaron [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 8:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys approach a girl when she's in a group? |
...A question about approaching at the mall doesn't belong in the "Online Sarging" section. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 5:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys approach a girl when she's in a group? |
People are never alone, especially girls, the more attractive a girl is, the more she will be likely to flock with other girls in her calibers. Hence, 80% of the time you will have to open a group, unless you sarge at the bookstore or groceries store (girls tend to be alone in those venues). I'm not a big fan of canned routines and openers, but in general, opinion opener works best for the group, because you have a lot of opinions to prey on and push the conversation with. One of the favorite thing I do is throw them something controversial and watch how they start tearing each other apart because of the different point of view. You can just sit back and observe, you will learn a lot about each individual in the group, then you can pick you target. It's easy to pick out the leader first, then engage and disarm her/him. Then move on to your target. |
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