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Author:  RTRA [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:  The hotter the HB, the worse her ADD is.
Rant.
I really think a lot of these girls join these dating websites to find people to date. But when they realize how much emotional validation they can get by just leaving their profile up, it’s like they become addicted.

I actually had a 6 month relationship from a girl I met on OKC. Now I’m back on and I’m seeing quite a few HB 9’s and 10 (some professional models) still on there, and active daily, that were on there over a year ago. Crazy!

Seems almost impossible to maintain these girls interest on these dating websites.
They seem to only give their numbers out after building enough report. How can you build report in a short amount of time when they take about 3-5 days just to respond. At that pace. You might be able to have a two to three paragraph discussion in about a month.
It seems like so much effort has to be put in.

I even messaged this hb8 the other day because she kept taking so long to respond.
“Hmmm… I think you might be a little too coy for me, darling. “
She responded, “Sorry lol. I’m not on here that often and I’m lazy about writing back”
At least she’s honest about the second half of her statement.

But I think she speaks on behalf for most of the girls on these websites.
And even if you are fortunate enough to get an initial response.
With every new message sent, there is an increased chance of her not responding.
By the 8th or 9th message you have to start sending double messages calling her out on her laziness.
It almost seems like a waste of time.
Imaging spotting an HB in a club, then going over to her and sarging her with a blindfold and earmuffs on. That is what it’s like to sarge online. You have no way of determining how they are responding to what you are saying.
So you are expected to spend this energy being creative and hold the conversation and they just respond with a 3 word statement with a smiley face.
It seems like that unless you are a professional model for a fashion magazine (I am good looking) or are extremely well off. These hb’s will not take you seriously.

Any suggestions on how to overcome this??
Author:  Crypto [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 8:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hotter the HB, the worse her ADD is.
Stop being outcome dependent IMHO.

The rule in texting is take a while to respond so you don't seem too available. I agree with that but for online, I suggest only message them when you see them online, make the messages as outrageously funny as you can (think like a 10 yo boy picking on a girl). Call them a name "Dork, punk, nerd" in the 1st 1-3 messages. If you are funny and they have a sense of humor they will respond quickly, try to keep it fast paced, and then once you have them feeling good about you, drop them like a rock. "Headed into my massage, see ya around punkin".

If she responds in the positive message her back in a few hours, if she does not reply then she is probably not worth the effort.

Not sure there is a way to overcome the EGO boost girls are getting from online dating sites, just don't let it get you down.

Peace...
Author:  GKS [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The hotter the HB, the worse her ADD is.
The texting rule doesn't really apply to online dating. You're on dating site for a reason, it's okay to show interest. If she replies you with 30 minutes, don't wait. Keep the conversation go on. If you wait a day or two, your message will be lost in dozens other that she receives everyday. No matter how interested she is, she wouldn't be happy to go through hundreds boring one just to find yours. Your conversation will be interrupt and the frame and mood you have been created easily get stale.

I usually ask for numbers after a few messages back and forth.
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