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Author:  recci [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 11:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Dealing with chicks who have multiple chats open
How do you guys deal with chicks who are either obviously chatting to somebody else at the same time as you or who admit that they are doing it?

I am not talking about somebody you have just opened but somebody that you have built a little interest or have already met. Perhaps the interest is starting to fade a bit and that's why you are not getting her undivided attention.

Is it best to tell them to end them or should you just say well get back to me when your not chatting to somebody... How do you deal with this in a non-needy way?

I always find this a tough call
Author:  whistle & fluit [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 11:59 pm ]
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hey man :) , im not sure what others do but if i think that theyr being slow to reply and are talking to other people i tend to try and turn it round on them, ill wait a while to reply to their posts and make it seem like im the busy one with no time to spare, doesnt always work but if shes interested then shell message back trying to get your attention back, this can be frustrating trying to do this but i find it can be quite affective. I think the rule is never put more than half the effort of the convo in should be at least 50/50. just my opinion though :)
Whistle
Author:  Chinopants [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 12:33 am ]
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I'm chuckling right now. I did that tonight while at the coffee house. I had 3 chicks texting me all at once panning for my affections. This happens a lot also. Thing is to win attention you need to be attention worthy. Make your text a natural FUN interaction. Be a challenge and paint pictures. Be Cocky funny sexy distant an a mystery all at once. If you're the best persons she is interacting with than you will not have the issue of being blown off.
Author:  recci [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 12:42 am ]
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Chinopants: Thats is very true I have already been the best guy and had her blow off all the other guys...Thing is its kinda been done to death.. Iv already fucked this chick a couple times but the long and short of it is she wants more than I'm offering..Im just trying to continue being the best guy she is interacting with so she keeps fucking me.

Thing is there is a certain way to deal with chicks that are showing you disrespect in this way by having multiple chats and admitting it, I read about it years ago but cant find the info now but it was along the lines of: Get back to me if and when you decided to give me your full attention but it was more alpha than that.
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