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| Author: | StarRacer [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 7:54 pm ] |
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So I took a FB opener from here and used it on a girl that I went to high school with. Didn't talk to her too much in High School. But I knew her a little. It was a line I saw here. The what if I could treat right you know. Anyway she didn't respond, she deleated me off her friends list, and she made a comment saying and I quote "lol this is why I hate facebook". And guess what? She shows my message on the comment. It got like 18 likes. So she decided to publicly humiliate me. I rather her tell me to f off and be done with it. But that was really messed up. I am pretty much over it (over the years I have been able to take public humiliation pretty well and I honestly don't care what other people think about me). But damn I don't think I'll be going on facebook much for a bit. I rather get rejected by a girl at school or in a store than this anyday. So how should I take this? As a sign to stop online sarging? Or just chalk up as a bitch? |
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| Author: | Blues Guy [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 10:32 pm ] |
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Sounds like you miscalibrated... badly. Definitely don't quit online sarging or FB. That'd be like quitting cold approaches because one girl turned you down in public. Me personally, I'm a dick, and I would be like "another girl with daddy issues. Sheesh. They should make you guys wear jerseys for easy recognition." But that's just me. Screw her, she slept alone that night. |
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| Author: | Ravengage [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 12:30 am ] |
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Depending on the girl and the opener that might not even be a bad thing. She basically said "hey look this guy had the balls to hit on me, and I was a bitch to him" publicly. If you just roll with it you should be fine. Of course that's assuming the opener was decent. If it was some pathetic or needy shit then you probably shouldn't bother with it in the first place. But in any case, no worries. Guys hit on chicks all the time, everywhere in the world. It doesn't matter. Anyone who liked you will still like you and anyone who disliked you will still dislike you. |
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| Author: | Mason1228 [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 1:03 am ] |
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What was the message. I'll be sure not to use it haha |
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| Author: | StarRacer [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 6:00 am ] |
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This was the line "Would you think I was a liar if I were to tell you that I would/could treat you so right?" Got it off of here. Nothing offensive. Not pathetic or lame. Not sure why she got all pissed because of that. |
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| Author: | TheKoon [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 6:05 am ] |
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Quote: This was the line
I'm not gonna lie that opener sucks. Even if you never talked to the girl. Just don't give up man, Keep trying. Practice makes perfect.
"Would you think I was a liar if I were to tell you that I would/could treat you so right?" Got it off of here. Nothing offensive. Not pathetic or lame. Not sure why she got all pissed because of that. |
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| Author: | Ravengage [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 6:25 am ] |
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Its cheesy but I wouldn't say it sucks. Its facebook, I doubt there's anything much better. 95% of the attraction will be built by your profile/looks/image etc. and not by what your opener is. The good news is that its rather nice and even somewhat romantic, not to mention still direct and it shows you have balls... at least as much as that's possible over facebook, since hitting on someone over facebook doesn't take a lot of balls in the 1st place. So yeah, I don't think its a big deal at all if she called you out on it in public. She made herself look like the bitch imo. |
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| Author: | StarRacer [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 6:26 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: This was the line
I'm not gonna lie that opener sucks. Even if you never talked to the girl. Just don't give up man, Keep trying. Practice makes perfect."Would you think I was a liar if I were to tell you that I would/could treat you so right?" Got it off of here. Nothing offensive. Not pathetic or lame. Not sure why she got all pissed because of that. I guess I got to be careful of who I listen to o here lol. She deleted me off her friends list. So not sure what I could do. It is what it is. I have always been better at face to face. |
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| Author: | pokerartist [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 6:33 am ] |
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Try the Darth Vader opener. It is really good!! And as about the chick DONT GIVE A SHIT about her. She's a total bitch, even girls with the worst character I've met wouldnt do this. |
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| Author: | StarRacer [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 9:15 pm ] |
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Quote: Its cheesy but I wouldn't say it sucks. Its facebook, I doubt there's anything much better. 95% of the attraction will be built by your profile/looks/image etc. and not by what your opener is. The good news is that its rather nice and even somewhat romantic, not to mention still direct and it shows you have balls... at least as much as that's possible over facebook, since hitting on someone over facebook doesn't take a lot of balls in the 1st place. So yeah, I don't think its a big deal at all if she called you out on it in public. She made herself look like the bitch imo. Pretty much this. |
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| Author: | Aeyo_JJ [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 3:52 pm ] |
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Quote: Its cheesy but I wouldn't say it sucks. Its facebook, I doubt there's anything much better. 95% of the attraction will be built by your profile/looks/image etc. and not by what your opener is.
Agreed. Keep an eye out too, she might circle back around when no one else is paying attention to her. The good news is that its rather nice and even somewhat romantic, not to mention still direct and it shows you have balls... at least as much as that's possible over facebook, since hitting on someone over facebook doesn't take a lot of balls in the 1st place. So yeah, I don't think its a big deal at all if she called you out on it in public. She made herself look like the bitch imo. That's when you can give her the "I appreciate your kind words, but I don't see our friendship going anywhere but anger management...." Her reaction is not a reflection on you dude, it's a reflection on her. Bottom line. |
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