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Author:  Tr@veler [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:15 pm ]
Post subject:  NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
Hey guys, so I have just given a jab at Online PUA. I am on Plenty of Fish and OKCupid, I live in London.

I have sent hundreds of messages, with no luck. I first tried out the "F-close short cuts" by vicparkguy here 1-vt122211.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0 NO LUCK.

My target age is 18-24.

I have then tried commenting on their pictures, teasing them. NO LUCK. One girl ALMOST led to a number close but no.

I have tried being direct, I have tried "hi how are you?" I have tried roleplay as an opener, I have tried qualifications "are you adventurous" or "what makes you interesting?" NO LUCK.

Now I have switched my profile a bit to this:

"I just took a break from dating but now I'm giving online dating a try, just because girls on here seem open and more genuine.

If you're fun and spontaneous we'll do something crazy like rock climbing.

If you're a sucker for food we'll cook ourselves some a'rabbiata and chill out to a bad comedy with a glass of wine. But don't get any ideas ;)

If you like what you see or want to know more, feel free to send me a message.

Ciao!"

The message I sent off today was : Hey! Let's cut the bullshit, I messaged you because I find you attractive but think there's more to you than that, so I want to get to know you. If you're up for that, send me a message :) Ciao

It's direct but not sexual at all, sent off around 15-20 or so. Let's see what happens.

What are you guys doing to get solid replies and interest and numbers and f-closes on online sites like POF and OKCupid? I have sent hundreds of messages. NOTHING. I have three pictures ont here, they are the best pictures of me, all of them are me smiling and looking good, one of them is with a girl, one of them me talking to a girl, the other me and a friend in a bar and me laughing at the camera.

Any tips are highly appreciated!
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:19 pm ]
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POF sucks. Try pay sites.
Author:  masterm1ne [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 8:14 pm ]
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POF sucks. Try pay sites.
I agree man.. I once put up a profile on POF of a cute girl. I got spammed with messages I'm talking like 1 per minute... Think about it, you weed a lot of people out that are not serious on a pay site. i have no problem getting dates from match.
Author:  Bodyfreak [ Thu Sep 18, 2014 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
POF is impossible dude. Unless you look like zac effron or a bodybuilder with chiseled abs. Its not happening.I consider myself above average good looking guy and built and i barely get any responses back. Pof and other free sites are just ego boosts for women. Me and my friend even did a social experiment and msged the ugliest looking girls with NO response back. I'm on badoo, pof, okcupid, and tinder w no luck...
Author:  Karlb [ Thu Sep 18, 2014 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
I do pretty well on Tinder & Okcupid. But Tinder is the way to go. Any chick who swipes right is at least attracted to you. All you need to do is have good pics, a killer profile, and not be like the 99% of desperate, clueless perverts on that site and you will have more women wanting to meet you than you can shake your stick at!

Reading your profile message was boring - it's all informational. You need to trigger a woman's emotional response by painting her a picture as to what you're passionate about - you need to stand out from the vast majority of boring guys.
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Sep 19, 2014 10:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
I haven't had issues with free sites, POF in particular. As a matter of fact, it's worked out pretty great once I thought myself through it logically. I live in Los Angeles where there are a lot of guys, but the thing is that you have to make yourself stand out.

Like Karlb said, you need to evoke emotion and your profile is lacking that. Your pictures sound like you are showing that you're a ladies man. Since online dating is largely visual, you may be coming across as a player. Don't get me wrong, women like players but they don't want to feel played and responding to you may be the first step at getting played.

Here's what I wonder. Do you pay attention to the profiles that check you out after you send your email to them? If they opened your profile after receiving your email, that means your profile likely sucked because you didn't sell her on responding.

Your email should make her want to know more about you. Your profile should make them want to contact you after reading it. Your pictures should match the person being described in the profile.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
Focus on your pics and profile .. probably your profile is boring and shitty, no offense. When you have a good profile, the door opens... check out my site in my sig (swayseduction) you can see what kind of emails you get without even initiating when you have good profile.
Author:  JJoj [ Wed Oct 08, 2014 2:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
Getting girls on POF is super easy... you want to customize your opener based on the girl's profile and the situation.

If I'm opening completely cold, I go with a a paragraph-length opener. If the girl is a mutual match, I might just go with "Hi."
Author:  Alpha6 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
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POF is impossible dude. Unless you look like zac effron or a bodybuilder with chiseled abs. Its not happening.I consider myself above average good looking guy and built and i barely get any responses back. Pof and other free sites are just ego boosts for women. Me and my friend even did a social experiment and msged the ugliest looking girls with NO response back. I'm on badoo, pof, okcupid, and tinder w no luck...

Yea, Free sites are just ego boosts for women... I even see some profiles where girls say they AREN'T interested in meeting anyone, I'm like (wtf? So why are you on here???) :?:

Most of the girls get so many messages that even the hideous ones are IMPOSSIBLY picky!

It's best to get a girl to message you first.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 7:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
POF is easy and i'm not even super good looking. I have awesome pics and an awesome profile. The icing on the cake is to have awesome messages that challenge her.

I have been bored of it though since Tinder is the new kid on the block. The great thing is, your messages don't have to be awesome since girls only like you if they like the look of you.

This is all you have to do, get cool pics and buy this:

Image

p.s. you should really post up your profile before writing off POF, your profile about me section is super boring in my opinion. your messages are utter crap too.

Pm me if you have to, I have got plenty of my friends laid from my POF advice, one friend has just had a baby and my other friend is buying a mortgage with his girlfriend.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
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POF is easy and i'm not even super good looking. I have awesome pics and an awesome profile. The icing on the cake is to have awesome messages that challenge her.

I have been bored of it though since Tinder is the new kid on the block. The great thing is, your messages don't have to be awesome since girls only like you if they like the look of you.

This is all you have to do, get cool pics and buy this:

Image

p.s. you should really post up your profile before writing off POF, your profile about me section is super boring in my opinion. your messages are utter crap too.

Pm me if you have to, I have got plenty of my friends laid from my POF advice, one friend has just had a baby and my other friend is buying a mortgage with his girlfriend.
Are you in the US? I think POF is way crappier in the US than it is in other countries...
Author:  GKS [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 9:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
Quote:
POF is easy and i'm not even super good looking. I have awesome pics and an awesome profile. The icing on the cake is to have awesome messages that challenge her.

I have been bored of it though since Tinder is the new kid on the block. The great thing is, your messages don't have to be awesome since girls only like you if they like the look of you.

This is all you have to do, get cool pics and buy this:

Image

p.s. you should really post up your profile before writing off POF, your profile about me section is super boring in my opinion. your messages are utter crap too.

Pm me if you have to, I have got plenty of my friends laid from my POF advice, one friend has just had a baby and my other friend is buying a mortgage with his girlfriend.
There is a simplier way. Download any macro app on android or iphone, record your action of clicking yes or swiping right. Run the macro. Usually let you set how many times. I have it at 1000 click. Easy and low cost.
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Oct 17, 2014 5:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: NO RESULTS ON ONLINE DATING!
Was kidding with the gif

I use the auto clicker too
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