I've taken an interest in PUA. I read Darth's opener and thought it was great. Decided to try it out on some girls on OKC. I sent it to this HB8 and a few others. Got about 80% positive response.
Some back story on this convo: I briefly talked to this HB8 a few months back before I started reading up on PUA. We hit it off well but I didn't go anywhere with it. Feeling like a typical AFC I ended up deleting my old profile shortly after on OKC.
I have done ok getting responses, #close and fclose in the past, though I think I need to learn to DHV better, neg and push/pull more effectively.
In this convo I feel I could have said things better but not sure how. She wont give me her number. lol Where did I go wrong? She seemed interested. This is a new profile with new pictures of mine and I didn't think she'd remember me so that through a curve ball I wasnt expecting her to remember. I saw her and decided to open with this for fun. No Response or text from her after my last.
Me: Hey I would remove that picture on your profile
HB8: Uhhh okay dude
Me: lol I hope you can take a joke, i thought you were adorable, I just had to say hi
HB8: I guess that would suck if I couldn't huh. Hi
Me: Haha you gonna have to repair that hole you punched through the wall. :p
HB8: Lol but I seriously went through all my pics to make sure there wasn't anything inappropriate. I kinda got scared.
Me: Kinda scared? Lol Well I'm a sucker for a cutie with glistening green eyes. How long have ya been single?
HB8: Lol yes.
And my last serious relationship ended like a year ago. I've been dating people on and off..so I guess a couple months. You?
Me: A full year. Lol wow how do you do it? Or dont do it?
HB8: I said I was dating on and off since then. So it wasn't a full year.
And you don't have to be in a serious relationship to "do it"
Me: Really? I like the way you think. ;p And ya ab the same here, a year ago for my last serious relationship and then off and on since.
HB8: That sounded incredibly slutty of me. Yikes. But it's the truth. And Id rather be single and happy over being in a relationship , miserable. Most of my relationships have been shitty. So I'm not in a rush. But anyways. Enough about me
So what's your name?
Me: Haha I knew what ya meant. im matt. Your names kristin? I try to steer clear of the physyco crazy girls out there! You seem pretty cool, Whats your number?
HB8: I knew it! "Oldusername"! You messaged mr before. You don't remember? Hah
Me: Haha you have a sharp memory! I think a couple months ago we bonded over some beach boys. :p I had taken a little break from the dating scene. Nice to talk to ya again.
HB8: Hahah yes. I don't just have sing a longs with anyone. Haha welcome back
Me: Thanks I think. Lol hows life been treating ya
HB8: I was wondering what happened to you haha. But it's been okay. Still trying to find new friends.
You?
Me: Well, perhaps we cld become friends. Call or text me sometime if you dare.
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